"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"If your life was a movie..."

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If your life was a movie, which movie would it be and what song would be your soundtrack?

I think that my life most mirrors the movie "Big Fish" because I have done so much crazy sh!t over the years that I tell tales and they seem to be false, but they are true stories.

Plus my life in the upcoming future is going to be even more insane.

The soundtrack would be Garth Brooks, "Standing Outside the Fire"

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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about a boy.

seriously if you guys know me im just like the dude in it. its kinda weird lol even my familly thinks im like the dude in it lol.

as far as song, thats tough i dont know. hmm.
 

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k3f1CbKzKNA

The Untouchables with Kevin Costner's character and the song that is playing in the background of the clip describing my life over the past few years.

So many deaths in my family and treacherous break ups have worn on me but I press on just like that character.

"Never stop fighting till the fight is done" is such a true quote and its said by Costner's character at the end of this movie.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sleeping Dictionary.

Id be an english teacher overseas teaching and fvcking the sh!t outta Jessica Alba.
 

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It used to be Superbad
now it's something like a toned down Platoon.
With no killing.
 
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