Mike32ct
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If she ends the first date or interaction with, “It was nice meeting you”,
It’s over. Delete her number.
It’s over. Delete her number.
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If your first dates don't get you responses like this, you haven't left that good of an impression.
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SW15
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Yes, great advice. Another bit of good advice is that if there's no first date kissing on the lips at a minimum, delete her number.
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Yeah. I went to a first date with a chick last friday and we banged and all of that. But at the end of the date, when I was driving her home, she told me to "Take care". 4 days later, I started trying to schedule another date but I am receiving some mixed signals. Probably I will next her.
CornbreadFed
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Based off my where experience, spin plates until the girl starts making efforts til LTRing you. You could have the perfect date, sex the night of, and a I had fun, can’t wait to do it again 
and she could still ghost you right after. Quit over analyzing after a first date because you have zero clue what’s going on in that girls world currently. I have fvcked plenty of girls right before her first date with some guy they didn’t want to be mean and flake on lol.
The only thing that matters is if she goes on a second date with you and she lets you escalate further sexually than the previous date.
and she could still ghost you right after. Quit over analyzing after a first date because you have zero clue what’s going on in that girls world currently. I have fvcked plenty of girls right before her first date with some guy they didn’t want to be mean and flake on lol.The only thing that matters is if she goes on a second date with you and she lets you escalate further sexually than the previous date.
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Did you drive her to her first date too?
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Exact-fvcking-ly. I learned this the hard way.
Mike32ct
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Yeah I had that happen more than 10 times. “It was nice meeting you” is a polite rejection.
CornbreadFed
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No, I was unaware of what they did until they told me later lol.
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OP had sex on first dates, that alone is a sucess story.
Like someone has mentioned, if you can't get at least some tongue kiss action on 1st day, delete the number and move the fvck on, because she won't give you a second chance with her no matter how much you beg and simp.
Like someone has mentioned, if you can't get at least some tongue kiss action on 1st day, delete the number and move the fvck on, because she won't give you a second chance with her no matter how much you beg and simp.
What should she end the date with for it not to be over?
Mike32ct
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Pretty much anything else. Some version of “Good night” or “Have a good night” is ok for example.
Or some reference to calling or texting each other is very good. “Text me when you get home” or “Call me this week.”
“I had a good time” is a good one too.
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CornbreadFed
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this is too extreme, and you can have everything workout and still have her ghost you. All of my relationships, I never kissed on the first date at all.
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Kissing or sex. Although sometimes with sex, it is a one night thing.
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Unfulfilled desire. Having her want more of you. And the date should be ended by the dude.
Having a rotation of 5s is better than being monogamous with a 6. Or being incel.
Murk
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And being an incel is better than being a pedo, what's your point?
OP claims to have a rotation of 9s and 10s but the receipts don't add up. The paperwork is dirty.
That was my point. I was just thinking out loud.
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you said this in 2 diff threads now. the projection is crazy.. I could be super mean to you but just read your posts back kiddo.. you and I are not the same homie.
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Oh I have. With the girl I'm currently dating and going on 6 months. Shiiiiiit was super good the first time. There was so much anticipation......we both knew it was gonna happen and as soon as I got there she gave me a crazy sexy look, took my hand and we went straight back to her bedroom. It was on for the next 45 minutes.
There is sexual chemistry and then there is crazy sexual chemistry. And yes it can happen the first time you bang.
