"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you won a near-billion-$ lottery, how would you adjust your game?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I would start cold approaching women in the mall. I would not have to be worried about background issues. Get a hair transplant, some cosmetics done to look more attractive, maybe lose like 100 lbs of weight and grow the muscles. Things like that. But then I think I could do that with allot less.
 

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I Get a hair transplant
Is it really worth the 18 months looking like **** with a scabby scalp.

And if the hair transplanted is going grey anyway, What's the point?

Half the reason I keep my hair at Super Zero is to hide the greys.
 

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"Game"/women would be #800 on my list of priorities, if a billion dollars fell into my hands
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Absolutely no change whatsoever. It’s SO easy to break free of the shackles of looking for female acceptance and just receiving it instead, but I’ve yet to find a single person who is able to effectively explain how, including myself. You have to stumble into it.
If money is considered an attractor, then you are attracting the wrong kind of girl if you’re looking for a relationship.
During my time of metamorphosis, I used to pick up women in my old Ford Windstar even though I had a very high-end ride in the garage. I didn’t want to play the game… I was determined to BE the game, to exude completeness regardless of my ride and my living situation. I knew women would go ga ga over the car so I removed it from the mix.
I’m a little preachy here as usual but @Mike32ct nailed it perfectly as usual.
 

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I would start cold approaching women in the mall. I would not have to be worried about background issues. Get a hair transplant, some cosmetics done to look more attractive, maybe lose like 100 lbs of weight and grow the muscles. Things like that. But then I think I could do that with allot less.
Dude just gave himself a solution to his own concern, and still won't do a damn thing about it.

SMH.
 

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It's actually about 15-20% of that number, after cash payout and taxes. Which is still a lot of money, but not too much to go bankrupt, which most winners do, because most people who buy lottery tickets are morons.
 

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If money is considered an attractor, then you are attracting the wrong kind of girl if you’re looking for a relationship.
A man has to use what he has until the woman gets PREGNANT and delivers a healthy baby or two. Unless the man wants to be 52, alone, no children, and tell people:

"All the woman I went out with wanted to have a baby with me, but they were only attracted to me for my money and Sosuave said "No dice, they have to like you as a person. I'm so glad I listened to Sosuave. I'm 52 and alone but at least I didn't use money as an attractor."

During my time of metamorphosis, I used to pick up women in my old Ford Windstar even though I had a very high-end ride in the garage. I didn’t want to play the game… I was determined to BE the game, to exude completeness regardless of my ride and my living situation. I knew women would go ga ga over the car so I removed it from the mix.
This has to be with really YOUNG woman. No way a not young women is going to be impressed with a Ford Windstar on a 1st date, no matter how good the man's "game" is.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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A man has to use what he has until the woman gets PREGNANT and delivers a healthy baby or two. Unless the man wants to be 52, alone, no children, and tell people:

"All the woman I went out with wanted to have a baby with me, but they were only attracted to me for my money and Sosuave said "No dice, they have to like you as a person. I'm so glad I listened to Sosuave. I'm 52 and alone but at least I didn't use money as an attractor."



This has to be with really YOUNG woman. No way a not young women is going to be impressed with a Ford Windstar on a 1st date, no matter how good the man's "game" is.
I was in my 40s - 50s. I didn’t say nor imply they were impressed with my Windstar. They were impressed with me in spite of my Windstar. That’s the point here. I purposely handicapped myself to prove to myself that I could pull without flaunting wealth/possessions.
On paper, it doesn’t work. In RL, I made it work.
 

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well... i don't really have any game... so i would not have much to adjust.

there are a few projects i would do with the extra power. likely those would connect more or different people to me, so that is an adjustment...

day to day stuff not much would change. i have everything i need.
 
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