"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you won a near-billion-$ lottery, how would you adjust your game?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would start cold approaching women in the mall. I would not have to be worried about background issues. Get a hair transplant, some cosmetics done to look more attractive, maybe lose like 100 lbs of weight and grow the muscles. Things like that. But then I think I could do that with allot less.
 

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I Get a hair transplant
Is it really worth the 18 months looking like **** with a scabby scalp.

And if the hair transplanted is going grey anyway, What's the point?

Half the reason I keep my hair at Super Zero is to hide the greys.
 

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"Game"/women would be #800 on my list of priorities, if a billion dollars fell into my hands
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Absolutely no change whatsoever. It’s SO easy to break free of the shackles of looking for female acceptance and just receiving it instead, but I’ve yet to find a single person who is able to effectively explain how, including myself. You have to stumble into it.
If money is considered an attractor, then you are attracting the wrong kind of girl if you’re looking for a relationship.
During my time of metamorphosis, I used to pick up women in my old Ford Windstar even though I had a very high-end ride in the garage. I didn’t want to play the game… I was determined to BE the game, to exude completeness regardless of my ride and my living situation. I knew women would go ga ga over the car so I removed it from the mix.
I’m a little preachy here as usual but @Mike32ct nailed it perfectly as usual.
 

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I would start cold approaching women in the mall. I would not have to be worried about background issues. Get a hair transplant, some cosmetics done to look more attractive, maybe lose like 100 lbs of weight and grow the muscles. Things like that. But then I think I could do that with allot less.
Dude just gave himself a solution to his own concern, and still won't do a damn thing about it.

SMH.
 

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It's actually about 15-20% of that number, after cash payout and taxes. Which is still a lot of money, but not too much to go bankrupt, which most winners do, because most people who buy lottery tickets are morons.
 

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I don’t think I would even worry about game. I’d go back to my home country and try to solve poverty. Some of you guys are way too obsessed with women.
 

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If money is considered an attractor, then you are attracting the wrong kind of girl if you’re looking for a relationship.
A man has to use what he has until the woman gets PREGNANT and delivers a healthy baby or two. Unless the man wants to be 52, alone, no children, and tell people:

"All the woman I went out with wanted to have a baby with me, but they were only attracted to me for my money and Sosuave said "No dice, they have to like you as a person. I'm so glad I listened to Sosuave. I'm 52 and alone but at least I didn't use money as an attractor."

During my time of metamorphosis, I used to pick up women in my old Ford Windstar even though I had a very high-end ride in the garage. I didn’t want to play the game… I was determined to BE the game, to exude completeness regardless of my ride and my living situation. I knew women would go ga ga over the car so I removed it from the mix.
This has to be with really YOUNG woman. No way a not young women is going to be impressed with a Ford Windstar on a 1st date, no matter how good the man's "game" is.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nobody knows because you will never know how will behave in situations like that until you are in them.
 
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