"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

If you were

E

Energizer

Guest
If you were drunk and in your drunkness you were clowning about but it came out as verbally abusive would you apologise to those said people?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

BlakeW5

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 7, 2008
Messages
292
Reaction score
3
Location
KY
Was the "verbal abuse" you just getting drunk enough to be honest with them, or you intentionally going out of your way to hurt their feelings?

Personally I never apologize for how I feel about people, I may hold it back at times to keep the peace but I never apologize for it.

However, if you did it solely for the purpose of hurting someone, then yes you should.
 

J. Darko

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 11, 2009
Messages
349
Reaction score
11
Well...it depends on your relationship I guess. If they didn't like you that much you probably can't make up for it, so then you should just let it go.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Top