MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If you sponsored foreign woman for fiancee visa would you stay celibate til marriage?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear MDJ,
Well at my age,it is really a matter of,Use it or lose it...one can slip into a celibate life style and be unable to scale the walls to get out...Of course he should indulge himself frequently at least three times weekly,and to keep life interesting,and maintain the vitality in his love life,after she arrives,see one at least on a weekly basis!
Well at my age,it is really a matter of,Use it or lose it...one can slip into a celibate life style and be unable to scale the walls to get out...Of course he should indulge himself frequently at least three times weekly,and to keep life interesting,and maintain the vitality in his love life,after she arrives,see one at least on a weekly basis!
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
By the time you figure the cost of the plane and visa {into the US} you'd have to tap it daily to make the numbers work 
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Sodbuster,
^^^^^^^^^ I agree completely,when you crunch the numbers,they are expensive...Very complicated and costly to bring one in...Birth Certificate,residency Certificate,Medical Check,Visa,Ticket...Not much change from two grand,and if you tell them that you will stump up for their out of pocket expenses...you will be constantly travelling to Western Union for Money Orders...Many are Bluddy clever scammers too...Even going over there for a month,bangs for your bucks,you will get better value getting a Lady of the Night to please you...and she will have fewer Health issues...Think about it Guys!
^^^^^^^^^ I agree completely,when you crunch the numbers,they are expensive...Very complicated and costly to bring one in...Birth Certificate,residency Certificate,Medical Check,Visa,Ticket...Not much change from two grand,and if you tell them that you will stump up for their out of pocket expenses...you will be constantly travelling to Western Union for Money Orders...Many are Bluddy clever scammers too...Even going over there for a month,bangs for your bucks,you will get better value getting a Lady of the Night to please you...and she will have fewer Health issues...Think about it Guys!
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Forget celibacy, this is the worse thing you can spend your money on! Besides major fees and a mountain of paper work, there is the risk of her not liking your country. Then what?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.