"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you sponsored foreign woman for fiancee visa would you stay celibate til marriage?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Scaramouche

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Dear MDJ,
Well at my age,it is really a matter of,Use it or lose it...one can slip into a celibate life style and be unable to scale the walls to get out...Of course he should indulge himself frequently at least three times weekly,and to keep life interesting,and maintain the vitality in his love life,after she arrives,see one at least on a weekly basis!
 

sodbuster

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By the time you figure the cost of the plane and visa {into the US} you'd have to tap it daily to make the numbers work :)
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Sodbuster,
^^^^^^^^^ I agree completely,when you crunch the numbers,they are expensive...Very complicated and costly to bring one in...Birth Certificate,residency Certificate,Medical Check,Visa,Ticket...Not much change from two grand,and if you tell them that you will stump up for their out of pocket expenses...you will be constantly travelling to Western Union for Money Orders...Many are Bluddy clever scammers too...Even going over there for a month,bangs for your bucks,you will get better value getting a Lady of the Night to please you...and she will have fewer Health issues...Think about it Guys!
 

VladPatton

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Forget celibacy, this is the worse thing you can spend your money on! Besides major fees and a mountain of paper work, there is the risk of her not liking your country. Then what?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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