MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you sponsored foreign woman for fiancee visa would you stay celibate til marriage?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear MDJ,
Well at my age,it is really a matter of,Use it or lose it...one can slip into a celibate life style and be unable to scale the walls to get out...Of course he should indulge himself frequently at least three times weekly,and to keep life interesting,and maintain the vitality in his love life,after she arrives,see one at least on a weekly basis!
Well at my age,it is really a matter of,Use it or lose it...one can slip into a celibate life style and be unable to scale the walls to get out...Of course he should indulge himself frequently at least three times weekly,and to keep life interesting,and maintain the vitality in his love life,after she arrives,see one at least on a weekly basis!
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
By the time you figure the cost of the plane and visa {into the US} you'd have to tap it daily to make the numbers work 
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Sodbuster,
^^^^^^^^^ I agree completely,when you crunch the numbers,they are expensive...Very complicated and costly to bring one in...Birth Certificate,residency Certificate,Medical Check,Visa,Ticket...Not much change from two grand,and if you tell them that you will stump up for their out of pocket expenses...you will be constantly travelling to Western Union for Money Orders...Many are Bluddy clever scammers too...Even going over there for a month,bangs for your bucks,you will get better value getting a Lady of the Night to please you...and she will have fewer Health issues...Think about it Guys!
^^^^^^^^^ I agree completely,when you crunch the numbers,they are expensive...Very complicated and costly to bring one in...Birth Certificate,residency Certificate,Medical Check,Visa,Ticket...Not much change from two grand,and if you tell them that you will stump up for their out of pocket expenses...you will be constantly travelling to Western Union for Money Orders...Many are Bluddy clever scammers too...Even going over there for a month,bangs for your bucks,you will get better value getting a Lady of the Night to please you...and she will have fewer Health issues...Think about it Guys!
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Forget celibacy, this is the worse thing you can spend your money on! Besides major fees and a mountain of paper work, there is the risk of her not liking your country. Then what?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.