MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If you sponsored foreign woman for fiancee visa would you stay celibate til marriage?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear MDJ,
Well at my age,it is really a matter of,Use it or lose it...one can slip into a celibate life style and be unable to scale the walls to get out...Of course he should indulge himself frequently at least three times weekly,and to keep life interesting,and maintain the vitality in his love life,after she arrives,see one at least on a weekly basis!
Well at my age,it is really a matter of,Use it or lose it...one can slip into a celibate life style and be unable to scale the walls to get out...Of course he should indulge himself frequently at least three times weekly,and to keep life interesting,and maintain the vitality in his love life,after she arrives,see one at least on a weekly basis!
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
By the time you figure the cost of the plane and visa {into the US} you'd have to tap it daily to make the numbers work 
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Sodbuster,
^^^^^^^^^ I agree completely,when you crunch the numbers,they are expensive...Very complicated and costly to bring one in...Birth Certificate,residency Certificate,Medical Check,Visa,Ticket...Not much change from two grand,and if you tell them that you will stump up for their out of pocket expenses...you will be constantly travelling to Western Union for Money Orders...Many are Bluddy clever scammers too...Even going over there for a month,bangs for your bucks,you will get better value getting a Lady of the Night to please you...and she will have fewer Health issues...Think about it Guys!
^^^^^^^^^ I agree completely,when you crunch the numbers,they are expensive...Very complicated and costly to bring one in...Birth Certificate,residency Certificate,Medical Check,Visa,Ticket...Not much change from two grand,and if you tell them that you will stump up for their out of pocket expenses...you will be constantly travelling to Western Union for Money Orders...Many are Bluddy clever scammers too...Even going over there for a month,bangs for your bucks,you will get better value getting a Lady of the Night to please you...and she will have fewer Health issues...Think about it Guys!
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Forget celibacy, this is the worse thing you can spend your money on! Besides major fees and a mountain of paper work, there is the risk of her not liking your country. Then what?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.