If you send a date text and no reply, then you see her around

[big weezy]

how should you behave?

if i sent a date text to which there was no reply, OR a fluff text which doesn't necessarily need a reply but would be ideal, and she doesn't reply THEN i see her about a few days later, how should i act towards her?

i know indifferent and aloof and not caring at all, but should you attempt to ask her out again after tryna build some more rapport?

or should you just act indifferent and not interested anymore seeing as she didn't reply to your first offer?

 

[bukowski_merit]

how should you behave?

if i sent a date text to which there was no reply, OR a fluff text which doesn't necessarily need a reply but would be ideal, and she doesn't reply THEN i see her about a few days later, how should i act towards her?

i know indifferent and aloof and not caring at all, but should you attempt to ask her out again after tryna build some more rapport?

or should you just act indifferent and not interested anymore seeing as she didn't reply to your first offer?

Not getting a response to a fluff text is irrelevant.

The only way i'd ask a woman for a date/to meet through text is if we'd already established a sexual relationship (otherwise - i'd do it on the phone). But assuming i was the type who'd ask women out on first dates via text - i'd just act completely indifferent to her if i saw her out after a non-response.

I'd act in a way that demonstrates that the wave of interest i had in her is gone. I also wouldn't make much effort for rapport and defintely would not ask her back out. If she wants to pull me back in - she can. But i certainly am not putting any more effort into turning a spark into a flame.

 

[pete101]

Not getting a response to a fluff text is irrelevant.

The only way i'd ask a woman for a date/to meet through text is if we'd already established a sexual relationship (otherwise - i'd do it on the phone). But assuming i was the type who'd ask women out on first dates via text - i'd just act completely indifferent to her if i saw her out after a non-response.

I'd act in a way that demonstrates that the wave of interest i had in her is gone. I also wouldn't make much effort for rapport and defintely would not ask her back out. If she wants to pull me back in - she can. But i certainly am not putting any more effort into turning a spark into a flame.

what if she comes up to you to talk?

I've had girls in the past who have not replied then came up to me to say 'ohh im soooo sorry i didnt respond i was busy blah blah blah.'

 

[big weezy]

Not getting a response to a fluff text is irrelevant.

The only way i'd ask a woman for a date/to meet through text is if we'd already established a sexual relationship (otherwise - i'd do it on the phone). But assuming i was the type who'd ask women out on first dates via text - i'd just act completely indifferent to her if i saw her out after a non-response.

I'd act in a way that demonstrates that the wave of interest i had in her is gone. I also wouldn't make much effort for rapport and defintely would not ask her back out. If she wants to pull me back in - she can. But i certainly am not putting any more effort into turning a spark into a flame.

But if i haven't established enough interest/rapport with her in my first meeting, would it not be advisable to try to reestablish and improve on it if i see her or would that most likely backfire as she'll know she has me?

I guess I need to accept i didn't do a good enough job first time round so no point trying to increase IL even more as it'll probably wont work.

 

[TheJazz]

Fluff is for the weak. If she legitimately disrespected you by not responding to something real, is she really worthy of your attention when you run into her?