Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I recommend instead of reading yet more material on how to get girls, you actually go out and get them in real life.The_Reaper said:I think that reading different e-books help you find what works for you, and I have found that David D's stuff suits me best. But if I start reading stuff by Mystery and Ross Jeffry and the other guys, that would probably cause a lack of congruity that would be apparent.
What other approaches or styles are congruent with David D?
I'm intrigued by the "very very very bad results" - did you overdo CF and get slapped or what??War Against Betaism said:David X. I personally don't recommend David DeAngelo, I got very very very bad results trying out his methods, though it might also be because his style just doesn't suit me at all.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I'm taking some time off getting them. Long story.Smack said:I recommend instead of reading yet more material on how to get girls, you actually go out and get them in real life.
The_Reaper said:I'm intrigued by the "very very very bad results" - did you overdo CF and get slapped or what??