That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I recommend instead of reading yet more material on how to get girls, you actually go out and get them in real life.The_Reaper said:I think that reading different e-books help you find what works for you, and I have found that David D's stuff suits me best. But if I start reading stuff by Mystery and Ross Jeffry and the other guys, that would probably cause a lack of congruity that would be apparent.
What other approaches or styles are congruent with David D?
I'm intrigued by the "very very very bad results" - did you overdo CF and get slapped or what??War Against Betaism said:David X. I personally don't recommend David DeAngelo, I got very very very bad results trying out his methods, though it might also be because his style just doesn't suit me at all.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'm taking some time off getting them. Long story.Smack said:I recommend instead of reading yet more material on how to get girls, you actually go out and get them in real life.
The_Reaper said:I'm intrigued by the "very very very bad results" - did you overdo CF and get slapped or what??