Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I recommend instead of reading yet more material on how to get girls, you actually go out and get them in real life.The_Reaper said:I think that reading different e-books help you find what works for you, and I have found that David D's stuff suits me best. But if I start reading stuff by Mystery and Ross Jeffry and the other guys, that would probably cause a lack of congruity that would be apparent.
What other approaches or styles are congruent with David D?
I'm intrigued by the "very very very bad results" - did you overdo CF and get slapped or what??War Against Betaism said:David X. I personally don't recommend David DeAngelo, I got very very very bad results trying out his methods, though it might also be because his style just doesn't suit me at all.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm taking some time off getting them. Long story.Smack said:I recommend instead of reading yet more material on how to get girls, you actually go out and get them in real life.
The_Reaper said:I'm intrigued by the "very very very bad results" - did you overdo CF and get slapped or what??