"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you have these things my deduction your better than 80% of men..

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-A nice disposable income, 1000$ monthly or more
-A decent body
-No Kids
-Own Place


Agree? 80% of men cannot say they have all these things in conjuction.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LiveFreeX said:
I would say not having kids by definition of a MALE, makes you less of a man, not more.
A matter of perspective. Atm in my life I see no pros to having kids.

Kids =

Less free time to pursue hobbies
Less disposable income
Less dating options
Possible child support

Having to pay for a childs upbringing because the mom thinks I'm unfit and some **** judge agrees..

You know what scares me the most? Spending 18 years attempting to raise a man/decent woman and they end up being a **** up. Could you imagine?

Ofcourse I'm 25 and you are 35, so two totally different perspectives in life. Certainly wouldn't use the term "wrong" in regards to your statement.
 

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^^ What ya doing at the gym? I'm no expert, I have great genetics and gain muscle sort of easy but I know a little sum'n sum'n if you want advice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, Marmel is great for fitness advice .. hes like an encyclopedia. Careful with that 8x8. It works but it's so taxing .. Good job though bro, keep it up.
 

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Hm, stuck at 240 with 2000 cals a day, thats perplexing. Doing any cardio?
 

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Actually, I think kids increases your attraction to other women.

Its social proof that another women liked you enough to carry your child for 9 months. It shows your non-needy, because your genes have already "made it" and you have a **** load of confidence and experience regarding raising her future kids. So you are actually much lower risk than a single guy who doesnt have a ****ing clue what hes doing.
 

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cola said:
-A nice disposable income, 1000$ monthly or more
-A decent body
-No Kids
-Own Place


Agree? 80% of men cannot say they have all these things in conjuction.
$12000 a year is ok?? Ha! Tell that to any woman on Earth and brace yourself. $120,000 maybe. You're off by an order of magnitude (multiplying by the number of digits on your hands).
 
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