"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you have these things my deduction your better than 80% of men..

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-A nice disposable income, 1000$ monthly or more
-A decent body
-No Kids
-Own Place


Agree? 80% of men cannot say they have all these things in conjuction.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LiveFreeX said:
I would say not having kids by definition of a MALE, makes you less of a man, not more.
A matter of perspective. Atm in my life I see no pros to having kids.

Kids =

Less free time to pursue hobbies
Less disposable income
Less dating options
Possible child support

Having to pay for a childs upbringing because the mom thinks I'm unfit and some **** judge agrees..

You know what scares me the most? Spending 18 years attempting to raise a man/decent woman and they end up being a **** up. Could you imagine?

Ofcourse I'm 25 and you are 35, so two totally different perspectives in life. Certainly wouldn't use the term "wrong" in regards to your statement.
 

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^^ What ya doing at the gym? I'm no expert, I have great genetics and gain muscle sort of easy but I know a little sum'n sum'n if you want advice.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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Yeah, Marmel is great for fitness advice .. hes like an encyclopedia. Careful with that 8x8. It works but it's so taxing .. Good job though bro, keep it up.
 

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Hm, stuck at 240 with 2000 cals a day, thats perplexing. Doing any cardio?
 

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Actually, I think kids increases your attraction to other women.

Its social proof that another women liked you enough to carry your child for 9 months. It shows your non-needy, because your genes have already "made it" and you have a **** load of confidence and experience regarding raising her future kids. So you are actually much lower risk than a single guy who doesnt have a ****ing clue what hes doing.
 

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cola said:
-A nice disposable income, 1000$ monthly or more
-A decent body
-No Kids
-Own Place


Agree? 80% of men cannot say they have all these things in conjuction.
$12000 a year is ok?? Ha! Tell that to any woman on Earth and brace yourself. $120,000 maybe. You're off by an order of magnitude (multiplying by the number of digits on your hands).
 
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