"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If you found yourself in a commited relatioship would you leave sosuave?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
LuisGarcia10
Senior Don Juan
I've made that mistake before,
This website has some very good advice, if I'd listened to some of it whilst in my last LTR it would have saved a lot of embarrassment.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Agreed. I've been here since 2007 and have dated plenty of woman all this time and never left. SoSuave kept me grounded most of the time. It's easy to fall back into your AFC ways when you've found a girl you actually "like". Then I come here and read some of these guys' stories and it sends me crashing back down to reality.Robyn923b said:
-Scars
Desdinova
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Not in the slightest. She was bombarded with dozens of roses, stuffed animals, chocolate whenever she had a craving, and even rolling, delivering, and lighting cigarettes for her. I turned myself into a fvcking slave for her, and I never once complained.zekko said:
I hit rock bottom when she dumped my ass. I had no clue why because I was the perfect boyfriend. I had no clue how or where I would find a new girlfriend, so I entered "dating tips" in Google. I eventually wound up here. After months of reading and field experience, all that Disney 5hit went out the window permanently.