"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If you found yourself in a commited relatioship would you leave sosuave?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LuisGarcia10
Senior Don Juan
I've made that mistake before,
This website has some very good advice, if I'd listened to some of it whilst in my last LTR it would have saved a lot of embarrassment.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Agreed. I've been here since 2007 and have dated plenty of woman all this time and never left. SoSuave kept me grounded most of the time. It's easy to fall back into your AFC ways when you've found a girl you actually "like". Then I come here and read some of these guys' stories and it sends me crashing back down to reality.Robyn923b said:
-Scars
Desdinova
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Not in the slightest. She was bombarded with dozens of roses, stuffed animals, chocolate whenever she had a craving, and even rolling, delivering, and lighting cigarettes for her. I turned myself into a fvcking slave for her, and I never once complained.zekko said:
I hit rock bottom when she dumped my ass. I had no clue why because I was the perfect boyfriend. I had no clue how or where I would find a new girlfriend, so I entered "dating tips" in Google. I eventually wound up here. After months of reading and field experience, all that Disney 5hit went out the window permanently.