"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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if you ever go to dinner with a girl try this one out!

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The August Sky

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from personal experience this one is a good one to use to break the ice.

all restaurants have diffrent birthday protocols...some u get a cupcake, others you get a reduced price meal and others give u some free drink if your of age. My personal favorite (and this can be done at any time...but its been best responded to on the first date) is to say to the girl "im going to use the restroom" get up and go and find your waitress as long as your not in plain eye sight of your date mention to her that its your dates birthday and u are wondering if they could send a few people over and sing happy birthday to her...

its best done with about 3-4 people, LOUD clapping people. the kind of **** that makes the whole restaurant stop eating and look at her. While the whole time your sitting there with a "s*$t eating grin on your face." Watching her turn BRIGHT red. its always good for a laugh.

try it sometime...its never failed me!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mtlwlu

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Thats a ballsy move for the first date, unless you have a really good vibe. But Id probably try it on a 3rd or 4th date, because then it would seem really out there and unexpected, if you did it for your first date you might come off as weird.
 
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BlakeW5

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mtlwlu said:
Thats a ballsy move for the first date, unless you have a really good vibe. But Id probably try it on a 3rd or 4th date, because then it would seem really out there and unexpected, if you did it for your first date you might come off as weird.
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Well the chick should already have a good idea of your personality if she's on a date with you. If it's incongruent with who you are then yes it would be weird.

Otherwise, I like it August Sky. Definately a fresh idea, props!
 
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The August Sky said:
from personal experience this one is a good one to use to break the ice.

all restaurants have diffrent birthday protocols...some u get a cupcake, others you get a reduced price meal and others give u some free drink if your of age. My personal favorite (and this can be done at any time...but its been best responded to on the first date) is to say to the girl "im going to use the restroom" get up and go and find your waitress as long as your not in plain eye sight of your date mention to her that its your dates birthday and u are wondering if they could send a few people over and sing happy birthday to her...

its best done with about 3-4 people, LOUD clapping people. the kind of **** that makes the whole restaurant stop eating and look at her. While the whole time your sitting there with a "s*$t eating grin on your face." Watching her turn BRIGHT red. its always good for a laugh.

try it sometime...its never failed me!
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The only constraint is, it has to be her B'day on your first date. :cool:
 
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The Sperminator

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The whole point of it is that it isn't her birthday thats why it's funny. I've never tried this on a date but I have on friends. It's always funny. I would try it bc she will laugh and if she doesn't then you don't want to date her anyways. Also dinner dates are boring so it will be entertaining and she will have a memory of you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Love it... yeah do it on the first date, and hope she gets you back on the next one!! How fun!! :)
 
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Beffing

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thats awesome, I never tried it with a date but my girlfriend would effing die
 
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yea it doesn't have to be with a girl specifically, ive done it with my buddies too and its always hilarious. even your parents if you have a good relationship with them its good for as well.
 
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