"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you don't love yourself....

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mavrick

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If you're hard on yourself, you're just as hard on others.
 

DohnShaft

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This is actually pretty important if you do not love yourself then it is next to impossible to really love another person or for someone to truly love and appreciate you. The great thing is if you make improvements, and constanly improve yourself you will love yourself. Now that is true love. Others will see this and want to be around you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DohnShaft

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If it definitely not the easiest thing in the world there isn't some magic pill. No-one can really give you that answer it comes form within. You won't find it in forums or books. Sure they are great tools and reference points. They key is to go out, live life, and improve yourself. If you are not in shape go to the gym, pick up some cool hobbies, do those things you have always wanted to do but never even got started. GET OFF YOUR ASS AND LIVE... We all create our own prisons, but we also hold the key.
 
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