GuyInNeed09
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How and can you expect success?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If you don't love yourself....
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MisterMcGee
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This is actually pretty important if you do not love yourself then it is next to impossible to really love another person or for someone to truly love and appreciate you. The great thing is if you make improvements, and constanly improve yourself you will love yourself. Now that is true love. Others will see this and want to be around you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If it definitely not the easiest thing in the world there isn't some magic pill. No-one can really give you that answer it comes form within. You won't find it in forums or books. Sure they are great tools and reference points. They key is to go out, live life, and improve yourself. If you are not in shape go to the gym, pick up some cool hobbies, do those things you have always wanted to do but never even got started. GET OFF YOUR ASS AND LIVE... We all create our own prisons, but we also hold the key.