If we had status?No offense, but if we had status we would probably not be on this site.
Just plain status?
Here's an idea: have a point.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If we had status?No offense, but if we had status we would probably not be on this site.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Another thing people forget about is MONEY buys TIME.Money trumps everything for the reasons you mentioned. Because if you have money you could never get laid again and still have an enjoyable life.
Currently at the tail end of a near 3 week vacation to the East Coast of the states. Luxury apartment in NYC, hot dimes and fun days.
Can't wait until I'm making enough money / hold enough income generating assets to pursue a "4 hour work week" and spend more time on my actual passions like travelling, football, music, health and fitness, etc.
Anyone who says money doesn't buy happiness isn't using it properly. I'm having a great time.
"I'm talking about liquid. Rich enough to have your own jet. Rich enough not to waste time. Fifty, a hundred million dollars buddy. A player, or nothing."Another thing people forget about is MONEY buys TIME.
It is said that the most expensive thing a person can buy is themselves. That means your own TIME to spend the way you want. When you're struggling to pay rend and bills most of your time is lost on trying to get by.
Everyone understands the importance of MONEY. A lot of people just live in denial. Which is why they will stay broke.
I hear ya."I'm talking about liquid. Rich enough to have your own jet. Rich enough not to waste time. Fifty, a hundred million dollars buddy. A player, or nothing."
Watched Wall Street at 21. Changed my life. But by then I had already flunked college and had to spend another 5 years getting to where I could have already been in my first year out of school had I applied myself.
Rich enough not to waste time. Those words still resonate. If I had watched that film at 15 years old I would be a millionaire now.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My cheapest property was 5K, improved to 8K, my most expensive is a small apartment building. My most recent purchase was a 9.5K house (yes, $9500.00) with a reliably paying tenant already in it. So yes, your average is about right. I buy things that have issues other people are afraid of, I solve the issues and I hold for income. People know I'm a potential buyer so they call me if they need to unload something. I have banks that do this. I specifically own in markets where I can buy decent property cheap (everything I own is well maintained and I'd live in any of my own units). I own in smaller markets and I do not care about appreciation. I end up with some forced appreciation however, because I buy at discounts (if a property needs a roof for example) but everything I have is structurally sound, and in good areas. I pay cash outright whenever I can, which is often. The last few I bought have all been cash so free & clear from the get-go. Some of my stuff is loaned at 100% purchase price with private money and interest only. But then I improve it with cash and create equity that way. Obviously my investor lends for the return he gets and hopes I never pay him off. This is a niche I am adept at. You will not get these kinds of returns in 100K and up properties by holding.So if your portfolio is $1,800,000 and you have 45 units, that's $40,000/unit?
What part of the country do you live in? Those seem like cheap units. What type of properties are they?
Is your usual purchasing strategy to purchase with 20% down?
Yeah well you are actually coming out ahead of me Neil, if it makes you feel any better. You don't have children. They are horrendously expensive. So are ex spouse's, lol@BeExcellent I think you are making more than me.
So I want to complain about the wage gap and cry Matriarchy.
This is the best post I have ever seen from you.No offense, but if we had status we would probably not be on this site.
You're not rich until your worth around 5 million, minimal. I do well enough, but I'm certainly no "rich bastard".
This is just a base statement from last year. It says it includes everything but it doesn't reflect true earning potential. This is what I earn with the minimal effort possible in my position.
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What this statement doesn't include is the following:
1) I only work 3-4 days/week. Anything beyond 3 and 1/2 days is overtime, which can be time and a half, double or triple time.
2) OT is virtually unlimited and I can work 7 days if I really wanted to.
3) I have a scheduled, paid week off every month, plus 3 weeks vaca. I can work my paid week off and collect a 80-100 hour paycheck, even if I still only work 3-4 days that week.
4) I collect travel and meal pay working out of district, which is frequent with OT. That can be an additional $150-200 per day.
5) I did none of the above in 2016 because I'd much rather be doing sh*t like this:
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If I wasn't a single dad with FT custody, I really wanted to be ambitious and didn't care about actually enjoying my life right now, I could probably earn about $250K+/yr.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.