If we had status?No offense, but if we had status we would probably not be on this site.
Just plain status?
Here's an idea: have a point.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If we had status?No offense, but if we had status we would probably not be on this site.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Another thing people forget about is MONEY buys TIME.Money trumps everything for the reasons you mentioned. Because if you have money you could never get laid again and still have an enjoyable life.
Currently at the tail end of a near 3 week vacation to the East Coast of the states. Luxury apartment in NYC, hot dimes and fun days.
Can't wait until I'm making enough money / hold enough income generating assets to pursue a "4 hour work week" and spend more time on my actual passions like travelling, football, music, health and fitness, etc.
Anyone who says money doesn't buy happiness isn't using it properly. I'm having a great time.
"I'm talking about liquid. Rich enough to have your own jet. Rich enough not to waste time. Fifty, a hundred million dollars buddy. A player, or nothing."Another thing people forget about is MONEY buys TIME.
It is said that the most expensive thing a person can buy is themselves. That means your own TIME to spend the way you want. When you're struggling to pay rend and bills most of your time is lost on trying to get by.
Everyone understands the importance of MONEY. A lot of people just live in denial. Which is why they will stay broke.
I hear ya."I'm talking about liquid. Rich enough to have your own jet. Rich enough not to waste time. Fifty, a hundred million dollars buddy. A player, or nothing."
Watched Wall Street at 21. Changed my life. But by then I had already flunked college and had to spend another 5 years getting to where I could have already been in my first year out of school had I applied myself.
Rich enough not to waste time. Those words still resonate. If I had watched that film at 15 years old I would be a millionaire now.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
My cheapest property was 5K, improved to 8K, my most expensive is a small apartment building. My most recent purchase was a 9.5K house (yes, $9500.00) with a reliably paying tenant already in it. So yes, your average is about right. I buy things that have issues other people are afraid of, I solve the issues and I hold for income. People know I'm a potential buyer so they call me if they need to unload something. I have banks that do this. I specifically own in markets where I can buy decent property cheap (everything I own is well maintained and I'd live in any of my own units). I own in smaller markets and I do not care about appreciation. I end up with some forced appreciation however, because I buy at discounts (if a property needs a roof for example) but everything I have is structurally sound, and in good areas. I pay cash outright whenever I can, which is often. The last few I bought have all been cash so free & clear from the get-go. Some of my stuff is loaned at 100% purchase price with private money and interest only. But then I improve it with cash and create equity that way. Obviously my investor lends for the return he gets and hopes I never pay him off. This is a niche I am adept at. You will not get these kinds of returns in 100K and up properties by holding.So if your portfolio is $1,800,000 and you have 45 units, that's $40,000/unit?
What part of the country do you live in? Those seem like cheap units. What type of properties are they?
Is your usual purchasing strategy to purchase with 20% down?
Yeah well you are actually coming out ahead of me Neil, if it makes you feel any better. You don't have children. They are horrendously expensive. So are ex spouse's, lol@BeExcellent I think you are making more than me.
So I want to complain about the wage gap and cry Matriarchy.
This is the best post I have ever seen from you.No offense, but if we had status we would probably not be on this site.
You're not rich until your worth around 5 million, minimal. I do well enough, but I'm certainly no "rich bastard".
This is just a base statement from last year. It says it includes everything but it doesn't reflect true earning potential. This is what I earn with the minimal effort possible in my position.
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What this statement doesn't include is the following:
1) I only work 3-4 days/week. Anything beyond 3 and 1/2 days is overtime, which can be time and a half, double or triple time.
2) OT is virtually unlimited and I can work 7 days if I really wanted to.
3) I have a scheduled, paid week off every month, plus 3 weeks vaca. I can work my paid week off and collect a 80-100 hour paycheck, even if I still only work 3-4 days that week.
4) I collect travel and meal pay working out of district, which is frequent with OT. That can be an additional $150-200 per day.
5) I did none of the above in 2016 because I'd much rather be doing sh*t like this:
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If I wasn't a single dad with FT custody, I really wanted to be ambitious and didn't care about actually enjoying my life right now, I could probably earn about $250K+/yr.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.