“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you don't hear from her in 24 hrs., would you forget about her?

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Went on a date with this girl on Saturday. Everything went great, I mean awesome (so I thought). She had very high interest, we made out, and she texted me afterwards saying she had a great time. I texted back saying me too and that I was looking forward to seeing her again and said goodnite. I called her tonight (Monday), one day after, never heard from her. Just left her a message. Now, if I don't hear from her tonight, should I just let this go? Is she making me wait cause I didn't call the next day? This is just nuts. How can a girl have a great time and not call you back? What is the time line on these things? How long till you say peace out if you don't hear from them?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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One of the virtues of "plate-spinning" is that it keeps you from sitting around and obsessing about what one girl thinks.
 

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Why is it that when I ask a question about a girl I like I get told that I should like ten girls? I don't have time or money to "spin plates". I am in my early thirties and barely have time to go to the gym. Yet alone have fourteen prospects. So can someone please give me one advice on one girl so that I can perfect my game for the next girl? Thank you and God Bless.
 

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u want to forget about a girl you went out with after 24 hours? come on be serious
 

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she never called me back bro, what the hell do I do now? keep calling? Look pathetic? Even if she calls in a few days, it shows no interest. I am serious as a heart attack.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I am in my early thirties


omg, so sorry! I didn't notice you were old. It must suck to be that old :rolleyes:

You don't have to date fourteen girls, but if you had just one more than you do now, it would solve your worrying problems. It would also make you come off as less desperate, which btw is probably the reason why she is not calling. You should not care this much. Women don't like that.
 

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trent81 said:
Went on a date with this girl on Saturday. Everything went great, I mean awesome (so I thought). She had very high interest, we made out, and she texted me afterwards saying she had a great time. I texted back saying me too and that I was looking forward to seeing her again and said goodnite. I called her tonight (Monday),

Whoa dude, thats too soon. I know you like the girl alot, but that's moving a little too fast. Girls I've known 4-5 years that I like I phone once a week, twice a week maximum. You just met this girl and are already phoning her less than 24 hours later to set up another time.

one day after, never heard from her. Just left her a message. Now, if I don't hear from her tonight, should I just let this go? Is she making me wait cause I didn't call the next day? This is just nuts.

K bro you are way too emotional with this girl, probably happens in all your dates with girls. Take it easy. Maybe she's busy, maybe she's at work, maybe she's studying, maybe she's stressed out, maybe she lost her phone, maybe she didn't get your message. If you get this upset by her not calling you back within 10 min, what are you going to do if you are dating and she flirts with the waiter a little? Punch her?

How can a girl have a great time and not call you back?

The same way you can tell a fat girl you had a great time and not call her back.

What is the time line on these things?

There is no timeline.

How long till you say peace out if you don't hear from them?
I don't understand what this means, but you shouldn't break contact with her. Just wait until she calls you back. Do not phone her and say "I think we should stop seeing each other" when she hasn't even called you back." SLOW IT DOWN.
 

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Damn,

you are good bro. Wish you were here, we'd do some lines together. Hey bro, I have been fuvking women the last five years and having all one night stands. Haven't dated since the last good Michael Jackson album. I think it was 2001 since I was dating. Just banging broads since then. I have no idea about rules of dating. In my text back to her that night I just said looking forward to seeing you again but maybe I shouldn't have said that. Oh well, thanks for the responses. I'm learning this dating thing again. I'm tired of the whorves. I want a good one now.
 

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I can raelate..and would like to get down on them lines to..
I think you don't have to have money to spinn plates (correct me if I'm wrong ) but I will usually take out the girl who has been the most patient for the week..not calling..(I think that helps keep her interested and I only have to go with 1 a week..I try to be fairly discriminate as I don't want anymore std's:nono: so work on your plate spinning
 

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Its the Mans job to set up another date. So, if you like her... set up another date. If she accepts then, the outlook is good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Its the Mans job to set up another date. So, if you like her... set up another date. If she accepts then, the outlook is good.
I don't know if I made myself clear or not. I called on Monday to set up another date. My first date was Saturday. I haven't heard back from her. I guess I will just write her off if I don't hear from her by the end of the night.....Oh well, maybe she's got another dude.....
 
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