Went on a date with this girl on Saturday. Everything went great, I mean awesome (so I thought). She had very high interest, we made out, and she texted me afterwards saying she had a great time. I texted back saying me too and that I was looking forward to seeing her again and said goodnite. I called her tonight (Monday), one day after, never heard from her. Just left her a message. Now, if I don't hear from her tonight, should I just let this go? Is she making me wait cause I didn't call the next day? This is just nuts. How can a girl have a great time and not call you back? What is the time line on these things? How long till you say peace out if you don't hear from them?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If you don't hear from her in 24 hrs., would you forget about her?
- Thread starter trent81
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
One of the virtues of "plate-spinning" is that it keeps you from sitting around and obsessing about what one girl thinks.
Why is it that when I ask a question about a girl I like I get told that I should like ten girls? I don't have time or money to "spin plates". I am in my early thirties and barely have time to go to the gym. Yet alone have fourteen prospects. So can someone please give me one advice on one girl so that I can perfect my game for the next girl? Thank you and God Bless.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I am in my early thirties
omg, so sorry! I didn't notice you were old. It must suck to be that old
You don't have to date fourteen girls, but if you had just one more than you do now, it would solve your worrying problems. It would also make you come off as less desperate, which btw is probably the reason why she is not calling. You should not care this much. Women don't like that.
omg, so sorry! I didn't notice you were old. It must suck to be that old
You don't have to date fourteen girls, but if you had just one more than you do now, it would solve your worrying problems. It would also make you come off as less desperate, which btw is probably the reason why she is not calling. You should not care this much. Women don't like that.
I don't understand what this means, but you shouldn't break contact with her. Just wait until she calls you back. Do not phone her and say "I think we should stop seeing each other" when she hasn't even called you back." SLOW IT DOWN.trent81 said:
Damn,
you are good bro. Wish you were here, we'd do some lines together. Hey bro, I have been fuvking women the last five years and having all one night stands. Haven't dated since the last good Michael Jackson album. I think it was 2001 since I was dating. Just banging broads since then. I have no idea about rules of dating. In my text back to her that night I just said looking forward to seeing you again but maybe I shouldn't have said that. Oh well, thanks for the responses. I'm learning this dating thing again. I'm tired of the whorves. I want a good one now.
you are good bro. Wish you were here, we'd do some lines together. Hey bro, I have been fuvking women the last five years and having all one night stands. Haven't dated since the last good Michael Jackson album. I think it was 2001 since I was dating. Just banging broads since then. I have no idea about rules of dating. In my text back to her that night I just said looking forward to seeing you again but maybe I shouldn't have said that. Oh well, thanks for the responses. I'm learning this dating thing again. I'm tired of the whorves. I want a good one now.
chrisgoodrich25
Don Juan
I can raelate..and would like to get down on them lines to..
I think you don't have to have money to spinn plates (correct me if I'm wrong ) but I will usually take out the girl who has been the most patient for the week..not calling..(I think that helps keep her interested and I only have to go with 1 a week..I try to be fairly discriminate as I don't want anymore std's:nono: so work on your plate spinning
I think you don't have to have money to spinn plates (correct me if I'm wrong ) but I will usually take out the girl who has been the most patient for the week..not calling..(I think that helps keep her interested and I only have to go with 1 a week..I try to be fairly discriminate as I don't want anymore std's:nono: so work on your plate spinning
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Its the Mans job to set up another date. So, if you like her... set up another date. If she accepts then, the outlook is good.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't know if I made myself clear or not. I called on Monday to set up another date. My first date was Saturday. I haven't heard back from her. I guess I will just write her off if I don't hear from her by the end of the night.....Oh well, maybe she's got another dude.....I.A.F.Y.B. said: