Went on a date with this girl on Saturday. Everything went great, I mean awesome (so I thought). She had very high interest, we made out, and she texted me afterwards saying she had a great time. I texted back saying me too and that I was looking forward to seeing her again and said goodnite. I called her tonight (Monday), one day after, never heard from her. Just left her a message. Now, if I don't hear from her tonight, should I just let this go? Is she making me wait cause I didn't call the next day? This is just nuts. How can a girl have a great time and not call you back? What is the time line on these things? How long till you say peace out if you don't hear from them?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If you don't hear from her in 24 hrs., would you forget about her?
- Thread starter trent81
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
One of the virtues of "plate-spinning" is that it keeps you from sitting around and obsessing about what one girl thinks.
Why is it that when I ask a question about a girl I like I get told that I should like ten girls? I don't have time or money to "spin plates". I am in my early thirties and barely have time to go to the gym. Yet alone have fourteen prospects. So can someone please give me one advice on one girl so that I can perfect my game for the next girl? Thank you and God Bless.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I am in my early thirties
omg, so sorry! I didn't notice you were old. It must suck to be that old
You don't have to date fourteen girls, but if you had just one more than you do now, it would solve your worrying problems. It would also make you come off as less desperate, which btw is probably the reason why she is not calling. You should not care this much. Women don't like that.
omg, so sorry! I didn't notice you were old. It must suck to be that old
You don't have to date fourteen girls, but if you had just one more than you do now, it would solve your worrying problems. It would also make you come off as less desperate, which btw is probably the reason why she is not calling. You should not care this much. Women don't like that.
I don't understand what this means, but you shouldn't break contact with her. Just wait until she calls you back. Do not phone her and say "I think we should stop seeing each other" when she hasn't even called you back." SLOW IT DOWN.trent81 said:
Damn,
you are good bro. Wish you were here, we'd do some lines together. Hey bro, I have been fuvking women the last five years and having all one night stands. Haven't dated since the last good Michael Jackson album. I think it was 2001 since I was dating. Just banging broads since then. I have no idea about rules of dating. In my text back to her that night I just said looking forward to seeing you again but maybe I shouldn't have said that. Oh well, thanks for the responses. I'm learning this dating thing again. I'm tired of the whorves. I want a good one now.
you are good bro. Wish you were here, we'd do some lines together. Hey bro, I have been fuvking women the last five years and having all one night stands. Haven't dated since the last good Michael Jackson album. I think it was 2001 since I was dating. Just banging broads since then. I have no idea about rules of dating. In my text back to her that night I just said looking forward to seeing you again but maybe I shouldn't have said that. Oh well, thanks for the responses. I'm learning this dating thing again. I'm tired of the whorves. I want a good one now.
chrisgoodrich25
Don Juan
I can raelate..and would like to get down on them lines to..
I think you don't have to have money to spinn plates (correct me if I'm wrong ) but I will usually take out the girl who has been the most patient for the week..not calling..(I think that helps keep her interested and I only have to go with 1 a week..I try to be fairly discriminate as I don't want anymore std's:nono: so work on your plate spinning
I think you don't have to have money to spinn plates (correct me if I'm wrong ) but I will usually take out the girl who has been the most patient for the week..not calling..(I think that helps keep her interested and I only have to go with 1 a week..I try to be fairly discriminate as I don't want anymore std's:nono: so work on your plate spinning
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Its the Mans job to set up another date. So, if you like her... set up another date. If she accepts then, the outlook is good.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't know if I made myself clear or not. I called on Monday to set up another date. My first date was Saturday. I haven't heard back from her. I guess I will just write her off if I don't hear from her by the end of the night.....Oh well, maybe she's got another dude.....I.A.F.Y.B. said: