I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AAAgent said:imagine having accelerated healing in the sense that you could work out as much as you wanted to and never have to wait for your muscles to heal. If your mind was strong enough you could push yourself to be literally the strongest perosn in the world.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The drawback is you would have to outlive everyone you love. Probably why Wolverine is such a bitter dude.Cure said:definatly accelerated healing (I presume we are talking wolverine style here?),
you'd be healthy and live for hundreds of years, and can get super strong/master many skills in that time, you'd be all but immune to death if you were careful and wore some decent body armour in addition.
Cure.
unlimited intelligence doesn't entitle people to unlimited possibilities. For example, being smart doesn't mean you'll be able to manipulate the laws of gravity, thermodynamics, or break the speed of light barrier.Credos said:If i would want a superpower it would be like Irenicus from baldurs gate 2 blowing up people with a single wave of your hand:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hk0sOGVSAP4
But if you guys would use your minds for once you should know a superior intelligence wins all... You can invent something to take all the other powers if they excist... And even if you can't, you can still make a machine for strength, something to heal you rapidly, something to enchance your speed... intelligence wins, and it's been proven in real life already...
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That kind of goes out the window when you're talking about superpowers since most break physical laws anyway.synergy1 said:unlimited intelligence doesn't entitle people to unlimited possibilities. For example, being smart doesn't mean you'll be able to manipulate the laws of gravity, thermodynamics, or break the speed of light barrier.
Yes it does... You know everything so that means you know how you can manipulate everything...synergy1 said:unlimited intelligence doesn't entitle people to unlimited possibilities. For example, being smart doesn't mean you'll be able to manipulate the laws of gravity, thermodynamics, or break the speed of light barrier.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.