I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
AAAgent said:imagine having accelerated healing in the sense that you could work out as much as you wanted to and never have to wait for your muscles to heal. If your mind was strong enough you could push yourself to be literally the strongest perosn in the world.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The drawback is you would have to outlive everyone you love. Probably why Wolverine is such a bitter dude.Cure said:definatly accelerated healing (I presume we are talking wolverine style here?),
you'd be healthy and live for hundreds of years, and can get super strong/master many skills in that time, you'd be all but immune to death if you were careful and wore some decent body armour in addition.
Cure.
unlimited intelligence doesn't entitle people to unlimited possibilities. For example, being smart doesn't mean you'll be able to manipulate the laws of gravity, thermodynamics, or break the speed of light barrier.Credos said:If i would want a superpower it would be like Irenicus from baldurs gate 2 blowing up people with a single wave of your hand:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hk0sOGVSAP4
But if you guys would use your minds for once you should know a superior intelligence wins all... You can invent something to take all the other powers if they excist... And even if you can't, you can still make a machine for strength, something to heal you rapidly, something to enchance your speed... intelligence wins, and it's been proven in real life already...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That kind of goes out the window when you're talking about superpowers since most break physical laws anyway.synergy1 said:unlimited intelligence doesn't entitle people to unlimited possibilities. For example, being smart doesn't mean you'll be able to manipulate the laws of gravity, thermodynamics, or break the speed of light barrier.
Yes it does... You know everything so that means you know how you can manipulate everything...synergy1 said:unlimited intelligence doesn't entitle people to unlimited possibilities. For example, being smart doesn't mean you'll be able to manipulate the laws of gravity, thermodynamics, or break the speed of light barrier.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.