"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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manbearpig

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It seems one of the prime places to go cruising, or "sarging" as you guys like to put it, is a club/bar.

The problem is I'm under 21, and I live in an area that doesn't have any "under 21" clubs. So what should I do to make up for it? Where are some other places I could go? Thanks in advance, guys. :woo:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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manbearpig said:
It seems one of the prime places to go cruising, or "sarging" as you guys like to put it, is a club/bar.

The problem is I'm under 21, and I live in an area that doesn't have any "under 21" clubs. So what should I do to make up for it? Where are some other places I could go? Thanks in advance, guys. :woo:
Try bookstores, libraries, colleges, malls...
First decide what type of woman you want.
Do you want a woman who works out? Go to a gym.
Do you want a woman who can dance well? Sign up for dancing lessons.
Get the vibe?
First decide the kind of woman you want and think, "If I were that woman, where would I go?" And go there. :)
 

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INXS said:
Try bookstores, libraries, colleges, malls...
First decide what type of woman you want.
Do you want a woman who works out? Go to a gym.
Do you want a woman who can dance well? Sign up for dancing lessons.
Get the vibe?
First decide the kind of woman you want and think, "If I were that woman, where would I go?" And go there.
I guess I gotta figure that out. I don't know what kind of woman I'm looking for to be honest... a woman? I know thats vague. :p

I just don't have enough experience yet to know I suppose.
 

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Get a fake! Scan your license into Photoshop...paste the 1 from 198y-whatever over the last digit - print it to high quality photo paper, put it in the window of your wallet. Unless you look like you're 12
 

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Mr80LBBalls said:
Get a fake! Scan your license into Photoshop...paste the 1 from 198y-whatever over the last digit - print it to high quality photo paper, put it in the window of your wallet. Unless you look like you're 12
I don't have the comp skills and necessary equipment to do that but thanks for the idea nonetheless.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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INXS said:
Try bookstores, libraries, colleges, malls...
First decide what type of woman you want.
Do you want a woman who works out? Go to a gym.
Do you want a woman who can dance well? Sign up for dancing lessons.
Get the vibe?
Personally I don't agree with this advice. I'd rather do something *I* like and see if there are any worthy girls. If you do EVERYTHING you'd like to do, eventually you'll find the perfect girl you are looking for + tons of other girls to bang.
 

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Adone said:
Personally I don't agree with this advice. I'd rather do something *I* like and see if there are any worthy girls. If you do EVERYTHING you'd like to do, eventually you'll find the perfect girl you are looking for + tons of other girls to bang.
Well, this makes sense too.

I really don't know know what to think.

The one thing I know is a reliable place to find good looking women around here at least is the grocery store. I'm an avid cooker and like to go there anyway, so seeing pretty womens always a plus for me.
 

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manbearpig said:
I don't have the comp skills and necessary equipment to do that but thanks for the idea nonetheless.
Hit up the Mall.

Best opener...find a woman who is walking by herself, and just start talking to her. Comment on her purse. "That is a big purse what you got in there a dog?" Just don't ask something creepy like "Where are you going?" or "You got a gun in there." Also if possible, if you can be subtle, follow her around a bit, or eye her to make sure she does not have a boyfriend with her. And if you can't be subtle, just try your hardest to be. Cus the minute she spots you following her, you will go from "cute guy in the mall" to "possible stalker.":crazy:
 

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Yeah man there are tons of girls at the mall at all times.

Oh yeah don't follow her around (wtf?) just go up and talk to her once you make eye contact and it looks good. Flash her a lil smile, and if she smiles back, you're already in.
 

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manbearpig said:
It seems one of the prime places to go cruising, or "sarging" as you guys like to put it, is a club/bar.

The problem is I'm under 21, and I live in an area that doesn't have any "under 21" clubs. So what should I do to make up for it? Where are some other places I could go? Thanks in advance, guys. :woo:
You're not missing too much. At least where I live, the majority of the clubs/bars are littered with people who are way too drunk and the music is way too loud to hold a conversation without yelling.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Adone said:
I'd rather do something *I* like and see if there are any worthy girls. If you do EVERYTHING you'd like to do, eventually you'll find the perfect girl you are looking for + tons of other girls to bang.
So much easier said then done. If everything you do is predominately male, then it's hard to meet women like that. At least it hasn't worked for me either way.
 

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PumpNightmare said:
So much easier said then done. If everything you do is predominately male, then it's hard to meet women like that. At least it hasn't worked for me either way.
Now, I do have one advantage in this area.

I'm very interested in cooking. Infact I'm going to be a chef for a living. So I have something I can easily talk to many women about, and it actually interests them.
 

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PumpNightmare said:
So much easier said then done. If everything you do is predominately male, then it's hard to meet women like that. At least it hasn't worked for me either way.
Not necessarily. If you are into "manly sports", you will befriend your teammates and they'll probably introduce you to their girl-friends (not girlfriends, girl-friends). That's just an example.
 
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