If you can't afford to date, just don't date

[Trump]

This guy is spending at least $250 on a first date because he wants to: make her fall in love, get married, get her pregnant, and have kids. Men are competitively raising the bar to separate themselves from the pack.

https://www.singleblackmale.org/2015/02/27/enough-already-cant-afford-date-just-dont-date/

Notwithstanding that woman's priorities change over time, I think he has a point. What do you guys think?

 

[claudolfgeorgini]

I believe that most women decide whether or not they want you within the first few seconds they meet you. I usually invite them to my house rather than go on a date. However, I don't think you should get into long term serious relationships if you can't afford a nice date once in a while.

 

[marmel75]

This guy is spending at least $250 on a first date because he wants to: make her fall in love, get married, get her pregnant, and have kids. Men are competitively raising the bar to separate themselves from the pack.

https://www.singleblackmale.org/2015/02/27/enough-already-cant-afford-date-just-dont-date/

Notwithstanding that woman's priorities change over time, I think he has a point. What do you guys think?

You don't "raise the bar" by doing that, you simply show you are the type of guy who is a "provider" who they are gonna make wait for sex while the dude who takes them out for drinks only and escalates is pounding them senseless...

These guys who think you need to take women out and spend tons of money on first dates are morons.

 

[Serenity]

$250 for a spoiled woman who doesn't do sh!t to contribute to a nice evening? What was so attractive about that again?

If that's what all the other guys compete about they can have them all. I'd rather be alone than to waste my hard earned money trying to impress a parasitic worthless leech. They can be 11/10 in looks even, but to me they instantly become nobodies if they're just floating by in life because of their looks and the fact they got a pvssy.

Men should get their heads out of their a55es and choose women based on good behavior and not just take any b!tch with a pretty body. Women should fvcking pay, it's the age of gender equality. Anyone suggesting otherwise is a fvcking sexist.

The guy in that article is not a man, it's a pvssy whipped beta who use expensive sh!t to buy prostitutes. Women of the worst quality, selfish and god forbid should NEVER have a baby put into her.

 

[MatureDJ]

From time to time I like to go eat (i.e., sit down) at a decent restaurant, and I generally don't like to go to such a place and eat alone (although there is this fantastic Lebanese place that is a bit far for me to take out, so I plop my fat a33 at the bar and eat alone there). I don't mind taking a woman out for dinner because I am enjoying the experience of going to nice place. Of course, my idea of a good place is about $50 for a couple, LOL.

 

[Mike32ct]

I think it’s about location. If you live in a major city, these prices for dates may be more typical.

Where I live, even a top 5-star dinner for two would be like $120. So if you just did dinner, you’d still be way under $250.

 

[djthiago1]

I believe that most women decide whether or not they want you within the first few seconds they meet you. I usually invite them to my house rather than go on a date. However, I don't think you should get into long term serious relationships if you can't afford a nice date once in a while.

Great way to weed out well raised traditional girls.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

And if you have money...

Don't waste in on girls!

See the paradox?

 

[sosousage]

Incredible. thats the cost of one month rent in certain countries

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Incredible. thats the cost of one month rent in certain countries

The GDP per capita of India is only $1700 /year

 

[sosousage]

The GDP per capita of India is only $1700 /year

I think you would have all the women in India, you should try there

 

[Urbanyst]

My strategy has always been to show my VALUE on the first date and let the woman chase after.

When you have a strong first date that gets the girl excited and you cool off a little after, it makes them chase you harder and think about you more. Makes sense because a high VALUE guy will have options and won't fall in love after one date. She needs to be a little insecure about if you really like her. Keeps her on her best behavior much longer.

Guys play themselves when they have a strong first date and then start chasing the girl hard afterward. She figures out you are lower VALUE than you presented yourself and then she cools off and dials up the sh*t tests. A lot of guy totally throw away their advantage when they have it. I've done it many times myself lol.

 

[marmel75]

From time to time I like to go eat (i.e., sit down) at a decent restaurant, and I generally don't like to go to such a place and eat alone (although there is this fantastic Lebanese place that is a bit far for me to take out, so I plop my fat a33 at the bar and eat alone there). I don't mind taking a woman out for dinner because I am enjoying the experience of going to nice place. Of course, my idea of a good place is about $50 for a couple, LOL.

Thats cool..just dont do it on a first date

 

[lizardking82]

No dates needed. I don't do dates anymore. I get them ready to bang through Facebook and Instagram and they just come to my place. Then, after that...we might go out on a date once in a while if she's behaving well.

 

[claudolfgeorgini]

Great way to weed out well raised traditional girls.

Some them actually are. If a girl wants to be with you she'll understand your situation.... for a certain amount of time.