she is if she wants the man to pay for her house and picket fence
houses cost money and if she doesn't have the money she will have to 'dig' for it.
see this is what i have a problem with. this right here. and i i know you don't mean anything buy it, but you can't have it both ways. you can't blame a woman for spending her 20's on her education and putting men off to put her career ahead then at the same time, **** on a woman who does not bother with these men and looks for men to provide it. in that case you are just ****ting on women in general lol. that covers just about all of them.
I mean if you think womens should financial equsals, that's fine, but you have to also take what comes with that. the not wanting to cook when you get home all the time the long hours at work the business trips, the 50 hour work weeks. this isn't a fvcking buffet you just can't pick and chose what you want to put on the plate lol.
and honeslty i don't care what you pick. i really don't. to each his own. you just can't pick both at the same time is all i am saying. either you give a **** or youd on't.
me, my wife coudlnt' afford this house we live in if it not for me. she couldn't' even think about affording it. i don't' give a ****. i really don't. i don't care what she finaically brings to the table. i don't care about her.. well she's my wife i care but in the sense that it's not what is important to me. her being a mother and a great wife and taking care of me trumps all of that to me. that's to me.
but you can't.. it' just fustrtes me just guys jsut *****ing for the sake of *****ing. pick a god damn side and stick with it. either you want a woman for her looks and being a great woman or you want someone who can help you achieve the financial status lifestyle.. but you can't **** on both at the same time. you can't out of one side of your mouth ***** about feminish, then on the other side of your mouth ***** about women who perscribe to the old way of doing things, who look for a man to provide things. you **** on one for trying to be a proivder then you **** on the other for looking for a provider
the difference between a golddigger and a regular woman to me is not the liking of money. every one likes money or just about. the difference is that a gold digger likes JUST money and is willing to overlook serious flaws in a man to get it. but you can't just go around calling every woman who likes a man who works hard a fvckign gold digger. it's not going to get you anywhere in your own life with women.
and honestly i'm not even taking up for her. **** i'm not fvcking her i dont' care. but jsut.. the butthurt on this forum sometimes is out of control grow the fvck up men. half of you are doing the same **** women do when they get pissed. half the guys on this forum have no problem *****ing about fat women being princesses yet not wanting to lose weight to get attractive men., yet will sit here and ride to the mothervcking end telling themselves that any woman who likes a man with a little money over a man without any money is a ***** or a slut. it's and are to fvckign stupid to see it's the exact same fvcking thing. if you do not want to be shamed into dating a war pig why should a woman be shamed in wanting a man with more means? i don't want to date a fat woman no more trhan the avg woman wants to date a broke man. WTF is "mature" about calling a woman who is on the downside of 25 who wants a man who might be able to provide a more comfortable life for her a slut or a goldigger. lol not even a spectacular lifestyle. guy has his own loft and drives a beamer. the ex has 2 room mates and has a beat up ass car. she fvcked this dude for 4 years and in 4 years the dude has not made anything resembling an effort to get his ass together and you have "DJ's" here claiming from the trees to call her a slut. this is the same guy a year or a year a half ago I did a favor and hired to do some design work, he draws and honestly draws quite well, and i have people that can take his drawings and program them into websites. that's how we gt some of our more creative design work. motherfvcker couldn't even do that. so you have to excuse me for not crying a river the guy is fvcking lazy.
here is a fvcking pill that the majority of you need to swallow; you cannot hold yourself to a lower standard than you hold the women you want to, otherwise you will never get anywhere here. you will continue to rack up posts and not get laid. you will continue to get theory and no practice. because it doesn't make fvcking sense. you can't ***** when a woman that you deem desirable picks what she deems as her best option. you can't ***** when a fit and sexy woman demands her man is fit and sexy. you can't ***** when a legit hb8 woman demands a hb8 man in return. you can either step up to thep late or lower your stanards, those are your only 2 real life options. *****ing about how the world is not fair is not going to get yo any clsoer to getting your knob polished on a constant basis.