"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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inzone50

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Guys, i couldn't get it up when we were having sex. We still did it 3 times but it was semi-hard and went soft quick.

This has never happened to me before. What can i do in a situation like that to get it up?

Also how do you react when that happens?

I said I was sorry and that it never happened to me before and that its really embarrassing for me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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inzone50

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Guys i need some advice fast. what do you do when you are gonna have sex and you just can't get it up?

is there foods i can eat or not eat that will help?

do i need Viagra?
 

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Eat more red meats, beans or other foods rich in zinc (supplements will do fine as well). And do plenty of exercise- cardio and weights.

Maybe a little bit of lube'll help- more/better sensation.

And just relax a little! Tension is the best way to go soft.
 

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on the contrary how do u stay hard and not bust so quick? i have that problem if im not having sex on a constant basis..but when im gettin ponanny constantly i can last longer..but the other day i went over this girl house from work and as soon as i stuck it in and did bout 4 strokes i busted...embarassing....now i jus bagged this cougar from work and im tryna put it on her this weekend sometime...some feedback would be appreciated
 

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The thin ive found that helps on both accounts, is just to try and relax about it....the only time ive expereinced the former problem is when i was going nuts trying to make sure she had a great time....just chill, and focus on havng a good time yourself....as for the latter...like crack one off before the main game dude....or, on second thoughts...get her to help you crack one off first....lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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