"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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If you are "up" for it

inzone50

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Guys, i couldn't get it up when we were having sex. We still did it 3 times but it was semi-hard and went soft quick.

This has never happened to me before. What can i do in a situation like that to get it up?

Also how do you react when that happens?

I said I was sorry and that it never happened to me before and that its really embarrassing for me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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inzone50

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Guys i need some advice fast. what do you do when you are gonna have sex and you just can't get it up?

is there foods i can eat or not eat that will help?

do i need Viagra?
 

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Eat more red meats, beans or other foods rich in zinc (supplements will do fine as well). And do plenty of exercise- cardio and weights.

Maybe a little bit of lube'll help- more/better sensation.

And just relax a little! Tension is the best way to go soft.
 

illslapyabfup

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on the contrary how do u stay hard and not bust so quick? i have that problem if im not having sex on a constant basis..but when im gettin ponanny constantly i can last longer..but the other day i went over this girl house from work and as soon as i stuck it in and did bout 4 strokes i busted...embarassing....now i jus bagged this cougar from work and im tryna put it on her this weekend sometime...some feedback would be appreciated
 

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The thin ive found that helps on both accounts, is just to try and relax about it....the only time ive expereinced the former problem is when i was going nuts trying to make sure she had a great time....just chill, and focus on havng a good time yourself....as for the latter...like crack one off before the main game dude....or, on second thoughts...get her to help you crack one off first....lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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