"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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inzone50

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Guys, i couldn't get it up when we were having sex. We still did it 3 times but it was semi-hard and went soft quick.

This has never happened to me before. What can i do in a situation like that to get it up?

Also how do you react when that happens?

I said I was sorry and that it never happened to me before and that its really embarrassing for me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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inzone50

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Guys i need some advice fast. what do you do when you are gonna have sex and you just can't get it up?

is there foods i can eat or not eat that will help?

do i need Viagra?
 

Fender

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Eat more red meats, beans or other foods rich in zinc (supplements will do fine as well). And do plenty of exercise- cardio and weights.

Maybe a little bit of lube'll help- more/better sensation.

And just relax a little! Tension is the best way to go soft.
 

illslapyabfup

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on the contrary how do u stay hard and not bust so quick? i have that problem if im not having sex on a constant basis..but when im gettin ponanny constantly i can last longer..but the other day i went over this girl house from work and as soon as i stuck it in and did bout 4 strokes i busted...embarassing....now i jus bagged this cougar from work and im tryna put it on her this weekend sometime...some feedback would be appreciated
 

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The thin ive found that helps on both accounts, is just to try and relax about it....the only time ive expereinced the former problem is when i was going nuts trying to make sure she had a great time....just chill, and focus on havng a good time yourself....as for the latter...like crack one off before the main game dude....or, on second thoughts...get her to help you crack one off first....lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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