"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It's cause deep down, you know that you aint waf. The reason you feel that way is two-fold, You are not using your mind in the proper, human manner, and humans are "pack animals". We need a social life.

Give thanks to Andrew Carnegie, and use your library's INTERLIBRARY BOOK LOAN system, to order and and read the following books: THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SELF ESTEEM, HONORING THE SELF, THE SIX PILLARS OF SELF ESTEEM, all by Nathaniel Branden. Also read Ayn Rand's THE VIRTUE OF SELFISHNESS, PHILOSOPHY, WHO NEEDS IT?, THE OBJECTIVIST EPISTOLMOLOGY, and THE VOICE OF REASON. Her novels are a pita to read, except maybe for ANTHEM, but Harvey Binswaner's THE AYN RAND LEXICON will guide you to the parts of her novels that are waf. Read anything by the objectivist paragon, David Kelly. Leonard Piekoff is good, too. So is Barbara Branden, Nat's ex-wife. Google for these people.

Go visit people in nursing homes. Volunteer at the homeless mission and the VA hospital. Coach some kids at pickup ball games. Be a "Big Brother" to 1 or more kids, ( but cover your ass about claims of molestation, by never being alone with them!) In order to HAVE a friend, you first have to BE a friend, and not just to 1 person, either!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wow, twentee is that you? or am i suffering from schizophrenia and am hallucinating this post in a mental institute?

good post man
 

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People who suffer from boredom, don't know how to use their brain. So instead they let the tv or computer use their brain.
 

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the objectivist philosophy is what the human mind properly "settles upon'. the others are Platonic in nature, Objectivism is the only one that is Aristotlean. Plato was silly enough to believe in things that we can't perceive. Aristotle was smart enough to say "so what? if we cant even percieve them, why waster our time using such things as guides to a proper life?"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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when you're truly a genius, there's lots more to you than can be shown on a forum, in 20 posts a day, for a year or so, dude. No brag, just fact.
 

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twentee said:
when you're truly a genius, there's lots more to you than can be shown on a forum, in 20 posts a day, for a year or so, dude. No brag, just fact.
HAHAHAHAHA that fvcking hilarious. Someone just got bored of trolling
 

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not me, I never tire of teaching the uninformed. Jealous men call what I do "trolling", cause they WISH that they had 10% as much knowledge and ability as I have.
 

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hahahaha twentee no one wants to be *you*

all *your* knowledge comes from google azzclown

which you use from your mom's basement
 
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