"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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It's cause deep down, you know that you aint waf. The reason you feel that way is two-fold, You are not using your mind in the proper, human manner, and humans are "pack animals". We need a social life.

Give thanks to Andrew Carnegie, and use your library's INTERLIBRARY BOOK LOAN system, to order and and read the following books: THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SELF ESTEEM, HONORING THE SELF, THE SIX PILLARS OF SELF ESTEEM, all by Nathaniel Branden. Also read Ayn Rand's THE VIRTUE OF SELFISHNESS, PHILOSOPHY, WHO NEEDS IT?, THE OBJECTIVIST EPISTOLMOLOGY, and THE VOICE OF REASON. Her novels are a pita to read, except maybe for ANTHEM, but Harvey Binswaner's THE AYN RAND LEXICON will guide you to the parts of her novels that are waf. Read anything by the objectivist paragon, David Kelly. Leonard Piekoff is good, too. So is Barbara Branden, Nat's ex-wife. Google for these people.

Go visit people in nursing homes. Volunteer at the homeless mission and the VA hospital. Coach some kids at pickup ball games. Be a "Big Brother" to 1 or more kids, ( but cover your ass about claims of molestation, by never being alone with them!) In order to HAVE a friend, you first have to BE a friend, and not just to 1 person, either!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wow, twentee is that you? or am i suffering from schizophrenia and am hallucinating this post in a mental institute?

good post man
 

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People who suffer from boredom, don't know how to use their brain. So instead they let the tv or computer use their brain.
 

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the objectivist philosophy is what the human mind properly "settles upon'. the others are Platonic in nature, Objectivism is the only one that is Aristotlean. Plato was silly enough to believe in things that we can't perceive. Aristotle was smart enough to say "so what? if we cant even percieve them, why waster our time using such things as guides to a proper life?"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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when you're truly a genius, there's lots more to you than can be shown on a forum, in 20 posts a day, for a year or so, dude. No brag, just fact.
 

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twentee said:
when you're truly a genius, there's lots more to you than can be shown on a forum, in 20 posts a day, for a year or so, dude. No brag, just fact.
HAHAHAHAHA that fvcking hilarious. Someone just got bored of trolling
 

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not me, I never tire of teaching the uninformed. Jealous men call what I do "trolling", cause they WISH that they had 10% as much knowledge and ability as I have.
 

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hahahaha twentee no one wants to be *you*

all *your* knowledge comes from google azzclown

which you use from your mom's basement
 
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