Still on the topic of the post, several couples I know (10 or more years together), who are married and have at least 2 or 3 children, are with a practically nymphomaniac woman who has oneitis for her boyfriend, but who behaves really excessively. High drama = High sex and desire. They are very powerful and passionate relationships, and at the same time full of ups and downs.
But you never would have guessed. It's always been said that women have so many options, yet they would always choose to be ****ed by this guy they have oneitis for.
YMMV