Mistic
Senior Don Juan
Nothing more to say it's all in the title
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Upside said:These "hypotheticals" are due to lack of women in real life.
if you were meeting asmany women as you can and spinning some plates, you would never think this stupid crap !
Or, you have nailed so many girls that it is no longer a fun challenge, and it's funnier to make post like this on a site where most guys are desperately trying to get laid.kingsam said:Upside i have corrected your post!
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OP you need to meet some real women not the fantasy ones!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
what he said... i wonder why i only bother to look in the health section these days man... sh*tScion said:The **** is wrong with u?
I will just let you hang yourselfBible_Belt said:I think it's funny that people are creeped out by sex with a cousin. People have been fvcking their cousins for all of human history. My ex-wife had two cousins who even got married...and they are from a wealthy high-society family, believe it or not. They don't have kids, but the kids would probably be fine even if they did. The risk of birth defects goes up from about 1:1000 to about 1:100 with two cousins. With brother and sister it is about 1:10. Kings and queens have been inbred this way for all of history.
Whatever the sex combination, there are people who get off on it. Whatever is taboo will turn somebody on. There are grandmas out there who get gangbanged by all the men in the family at once...and some who work the family dog into the party. Sex with a cousin is not big deal next to that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Trader said:I will just let you hang yourself
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.