Mistic
Senior Don Juan
Nothing more to say it's all in the title
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Upside said:These "hypotheticals" are due to lack of women in real life.
if you were meeting asmany women as you can and spinning some plates, you would never think this stupid crap !
Or, you have nailed so many girls that it is no longer a fun challenge, and it's funnier to make post like this on a site where most guys are desperately trying to get laid.kingsam said:Upside i have corrected your post!
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OP you need to meet some real women not the fantasy ones!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
what he said... i wonder why i only bother to look in the health section these days man... sh*tScion said:The **** is wrong with u?
I will just let you hang yourselfBible_Belt said:I think it's funny that people are creeped out by sex with a cousin. People have been fvcking their cousins for all of human history. My ex-wife had two cousins who even got married...and they are from a wealthy high-society family, believe it or not. They don't have kids, but the kids would probably be fine even if they did. The risk of birth defects goes up from about 1:1000 to about 1:100 with two cousins. With brother and sister it is about 1:10. Kings and queens have been inbred this way for all of history.
Whatever the sex combination, there are people who get off on it. Whatever is taboo will turn somebody on. There are grandmas out there who get gangbanged by all the men in the family at once...and some who work the family dog into the party. Sex with a cousin is not big deal next to that.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Trader said:I will just let you hang yourself
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.