"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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If this site claims that 90% of the world is AFC...

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... then why is it that everytime I see an HB, she always has a boyfriend or is married.

Seriously... One time, I was chatting with this HB8... we were doin great till I saw this little kid. I said "Ur little brother is cute..."

She said: "No... thats my SON".

Guess how disappointed I was... :mad:

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Everytime I go to the movies, I always see HB holding the arms of some guy.

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Damn I'm sick of it. :mad: Why does every woman have to have COMPETITION?!? Always has BF or has husband... Yeah... you'd tell me... "so are you chicken?"

I'm not afraid of competition... but if there is competiiton, that is still an obstacle course that would make it more difficult for me.

But why why why... Damn... I'm only 20... and yet, ever HB I meet is TAKEN!!! :mad:

SO WHERE DO I FIND HB WHO ISNT TAKEN?!?!!! :mad:

...Or is being DJ all about havin competition?

When my bro found out that I was goin for a girl who has a bf already, he gave me all these AFC advice that I shouldnt even think about approaching her...

He thinks I'm crazy. :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's why the world IS 90% (and this board is 99%) AFC. Because a REAL hottie (not a WarPig 2 that someone mislabeled a 7) ALWAYS has a boyfriend, an ex-boyfriend, or a fyck/hookup buddy (or a combination of all three). Always.

This is an unwritten law of the Secret Society. Girls can ALWAYS get CYCK if they want it.

The key to being that other percent is to become a member, a Player, in the Secret Society. This IS SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST. Compete, improve, and win or you always be a chump begging for it.

Work on your AMOG skills too so you can compete against Naturals.(
 

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Originally posted by neobrood
[BGuess how disappointed I was... :mad:
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...to be chatting up a milf?

first off, that's why cold approaching is tough work. most of them are taken so you have to move on and find one that isn't.

SO WHERE DO I FIND HB WHO ISNT TAKEN?!?!!!
clubs and bars. you're guaranteed single hbs there

by the way, the definition of afc is not "someone who has no girl". it goes much deeper than that. more like "someone who has no life, doesn't take care of himself, cares too much about other people's opinions, lets other people walk all over him, doesn't respect himself, doesn't have any confidence in his own abilities, regardless of any women they have had or do have now"- the exact opposite of a dj.

i'm sick of the sight of chumps with girls all the time too. but i know that the reason most of the girls hold onto the chump is because they are shyt scared of being single again and their self-esteem is so low that they do not think they are worthy of a real man
 

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Usually it's pretty easy to break up the HBs and their AFC boyfriends, provided their boyfriend is an AFC. They are just with him to say they have a boyfriend.
 

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JT47319 stop spreading your propaganda.

It's elitist and bs.

So your in a pimp secret society like the masons?

Nice fairy tale.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by entropy
JT47319 stop spreading your propaganda.

It's elitist and bs.

So your in a pimp secret society like the masons?

Nice fairy tale.
No, there's the world of the AFCs and the world of those constantly getting laid. Different rules apply to each reality. Normal societal rules apply to AFCs...

Really, Neo, do you think that's AIR you're breathing?
 

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No, JT is right. There are the AFC's who suck up to girls and follow them everywhere.. Then there are the real men who have the girls coming to them.. I would know because I used to be afc all of my HS years.. Lot's of girls date AFC's.. but even more girls WANT a real man..

Girls want an AFC to fullfill their feminen needs..
on the other hand Girls want a man who doesnt NEED them..

Sooooo we have the 2 worlds.. an AFC who wants to make a woman happy ( which girls get bored of no challenge except for a select few) no matter what they have to do. And a DJ who just wants to be happy.
 

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hahaha, dude i know how you feel.. i used to chat up real hotties, and find out they got boyfriends of 4 years and **** like that.. i would think "this is some bs..."

well, you know what? now im banging a hottie... and having a great time..

search takes time, it is a part of the game.. i know it might feel very retarded at times, but you'll get through if you are determined.


oh, and the secret society... well, hahahaha, damn, sorry.. but i guess i havent reached the initiative "bang 1000 chicks" to enter rank..

are you serious, jt? **** man, whatever makes you sleep better at night..
 

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I see this alot you have to take into account that females will much prefer dating an AFC than toughing it out alone they hate being alone I can guarantee the large majority of HB's are unsatisfied in their relationships...
 

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JT had it pretty close.

Let's consider the average american male.

He was raised :
-to be nice
-to buy flowers
-to find a good girl and marry her (or knock her up so that she'll have to marry you)
-other 'romantic' crap for approval

Sums up a solid 90% of people...

For the sake of debate, we'll use the alpha / beta analogy. (Alpha = Lots of sex, Beta = Many cases of one-gina) A woman will take a beta male to provide for her, then find an alpha male to bear her children... although a lot of the time, the woman will not find this alpha male.

Don't buy into that theory??? Consider that in RANDOM paternity tests in North America have always produced roughly a rate of 30% illigitmate children... in other words 30% of guys in the US are raising a child that is not their own AND without the knowledge that it is not their own.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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if this theory was true, 9 out of 10 guys would have no idea how to get a girl.. which is total bs.. we can beat out chests all we want saying "We are alpha DJ's, fear and respect us!" , but why, when i know plenty of guys who are good with girls from experiences.. same things that actually teach us (plus a little theory :) )..

There are far more guys who can get girls.. but there are not many who are able to get and KEEP girls.
 

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i feel your pain bro... everytime i approach a girl, they always end up to be taken. its like they say...ALL THE GOOD ONES ARE TAKEN.
 

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If you feel bad stealing a chick(plus a chick who you can steal can always be stolen from you.) then make friends with her.(not LJBF zone) but make friends and become one of her possible loves if she wasn't already hooked up. Soon as the relationship ends(as It always does) hook up with her.

But don't just sit around. Date other chicks in the meantime.Then when she breaks up It won't seem like you were waiting.

if the world is %90AFC and %40HB then at least %75 of hot babes should be easy to get for a DJ.
 

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Originally posted by JT47319
That's why the world IS 90% (and this board is 99%) AFC. Because a REAL hottie (not a WarPig 2 that someone mislabeled a 7) ALWAYS has a boyfriend, an ex-boyfriend, or a fyck/hookup buddy (or a combination of all three). Always.

This is an unwritten law of the Secret Society. Girls can ALWAYS get CYCK if they want it.

The key to being that other percent is to become a member, a Player, in the Secret Society. This IS SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST. Compete, improve, and win or you always be a chump begging for it.

Work on your AMOG skills too so you can compete against Naturals.(
You are pretty insane to even try to bring up secret society here mate :) I can sum up on one or maybe two hands the people on this board that are inn it or anywhere near it. The concept is pretty farfetched until you are inn it or understand it (which is hard without experiencing it).

The day they have girls throwing pvssy at them without talking to them they'll understand, the day the girls of their mates throwing IOIs all over the place they'll understand. The day they can go out and disconnect from social structure and society at large they will understand. The thing is that most people never experience it and never will.
 

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Originally posted by Oxide
There are far more guys who can get girls.. but there are not many who are able to get and KEEP girls.
That's pretty much the consept, any girl an AFC has can be TAKEN away. Most girls will LOVE a real alpha/player or simular that svoopes them inn to their world, the world of secret society if you will.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What are the choicest women supposed to do? Wait around for YOU?

We all have the same plight and we all gripe about it, but seriously, you can't expect there NOT to be some competition for any hot girl. If you're going to go after the hot women, you have to EXPECT the endless streams of both "AFCs" and "DJs" that are going to try to run game on her. That's a fact of life. If you're not up for that, find yourself a mediocre fat girl who doesn't talk TOO much and call it a day. ;)

Play the ball, not the man.
 

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exactly. I mean think about it, all of the traits that you like about the girl, don't you think 98 out of 100 guys like thoose exact same traits? It's not like you are the only one with eyes.
 

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what would you suggest be the next step, after finding out she has a bf?

just becuase you like her, doesnt mean she will drop her boyfriend for you (at least not after some time spending with you)

I'm kind of torn in between, i had times where girl's friend had to keep her away from raping me..and she had a fiance, and then on the other hand, i woudnt want some "mr dj" to hit on a girl im in a relationship with.. but then again i would let her handle it, and if she doesnt handle it right, she can go right along with him.
 

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Who cares if she has a BF?

Hotties always have dyck on the side. This is a fact, pure and simple, of the Secret Society.

You can either be the dyck, the BOREfriend, or the chump. But at least the first two get to pork her.
 

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bull****! oh, wait, bull****! there ya go...

hotties might always have **** on the side they could use, but there are plenty of faithful ones despite this fact.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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