"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If this is not a 10 then I don't know what is.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Yeah but they shouldn't be. It should be purely based on the facts.:-) said:
I know the looks rating can be subjective, but I do think a lot of men are too quick to give women a high number.
So many men don't try or see a significant amount of women and when then they see just one decent girl they give a her 10.
3agle 3yes said:
yeah, i agree with that. although one time i knew this girl who was no more than a 4 on first viewing. real plain jane, shy, girl next door type. absolutely wasnt attracted to her. few months down the line when i got to know her and her personality it was like i'd never met anyone like her. she was like all i could think of and a '10' would not have taken my mind off of her. so yeah, it's subjective.
makes you wonder how many '10's are out there and we don't even realise it cos we're judging them on their looks. dumb.
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all I have around here is flat/average girls without any meat on them that speaks to father thick here - where are those chicks hiding?!"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I bet she's as fake as her tits. She's not a 10 overall, let alone physically.
Nah.
http://i.imgur.com/YNVdxH4.jpg
what about the one from the left ?
to me the one on the left (the shorter one) is hotter.cataxdz said:
that's the funny thing about oneitis's. if you could see them from someone else's perspective you'd wonder what all the fuss is about. just goes to how how attraction has more to do with chemistry than looks.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I like that one too. Cuter face, plus all things being equal, I tend to go for the shorter one. I think short girls are kind of a fetish for me.:-) said:
I can see why you'd like the tall one though. I'd give them both 7s, which is very good on my scale.
They both have decent bodies but I'm a face man and I wouldn't be able to stare at her face long term. The chick on the left is light years ahead of her. Fvck the right chick (figuratively) and fvck the left chick (literally).cataxdz said: