"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If this is not a 10 then I don't know what is.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
3agle 3yes
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Yeah but they shouldn't be. It should be purely based on the facts.:-) said:
I know the looks rating can be subjective, but I do think a lot of men are too quick to give women a high number.
So many men don't try or see a significant amount of women and when then they see just one decent girl they give a her 10.
3agle 3yes said:
yeah, i agree with that. although one time i knew this girl who was no more than a 4 on first viewing. real plain jane, shy, girl next door type. absolutely wasnt attracted to her. few months down the line when i got to know her and her personality it was like i'd never met anyone like her. she was like all i could think of and a '10' would not have taken my mind off of her. so yeah, it's subjective.
makes you wonder how many '10's are out there and we don't even realise it cos we're judging them on their looks. dumb.
AttackFormation
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Well damnIn2theGame said:
all I have around here is flat/average girls without any meat on them that speaks to father thick here - where are those chicks hiding?!"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
EbbsAndFlows
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I bet she's as fake as her tits. She's not a 10 overall, let alone physically.
Nah.
http://i.imgur.com/YNVdxH4.jpg
what about the one from the left ?
to me the one on the left (the shorter one) is hotter.cataxdz said:
that's the funny thing about oneitis's. if you could see them from someone else's perspective you'd wonder what all the fuss is about. just goes to how how attraction has more to do with chemistry than looks.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
zekko
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I like that one too. Cuter face, plus all things being equal, I tend to go for the shorter one. I think short girls are kind of a fetish for me.:-) said:
I can see why you'd like the tall one though. I'd give them both 7s, which is very good on my scale.
They both have decent bodies but I'm a face man and I wouldn't be able to stare at her face long term. The chick on the left is light years ahead of her. Fvck the right chick (figuratively) and fvck the left chick (literally).cataxdz said: