"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If this is not a 10 then I don't know what is.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
3agle 3yes
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Yeah but they shouldn't be. It should be purely based on the facts.:-) said:
I know the looks rating can be subjective, but I do think a lot of men are too quick to give women a high number.
So many men don't try or see a significant amount of women and when then they see just one decent girl they give a her 10.
3agle 3yes said:
yeah, i agree with that. although one time i knew this girl who was no more than a 4 on first viewing. real plain jane, shy, girl next door type. absolutely wasnt attracted to her. few months down the line when i got to know her and her personality it was like i'd never met anyone like her. she was like all i could think of and a '10' would not have taken my mind off of her. so yeah, it's subjective.
makes you wonder how many '10's are out there and we don't even realise it cos we're judging them on their looks. dumb.
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Well damnIn2theGame said:
all I have around here is flat/average girls without any meat on them that speaks to father thick here - where are those chicks hiding?!"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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I bet she's as fake as her tits. She's not a 10 overall, let alone physically.
Nah.
http://i.imgur.com/YNVdxH4.jpg
what about the one from the left ?
to me the one on the left (the shorter one) is hotter.cataxdz said:
that's the funny thing about oneitis's. if you could see them from someone else's perspective you'd wonder what all the fuss is about. just goes to how how attraction has more to do with chemistry than looks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I like that one too. Cuter face, plus all things being equal, I tend to go for the shorter one. I think short girls are kind of a fetish for me.:-) said:
I can see why you'd like the tall one though. I'd give them both 7s, which is very good on my scale.
They both have decent bodies but I'm a face man and I wouldn't be able to stare at her face long term. The chick on the left is light years ahead of her. Fvck the right chick (figuratively) and fvck the left chick (literally).cataxdz said: