"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If this is not a 10 then I don't know what is.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
3agle 3yes
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Yeah but they shouldn't be. It should be purely based on the facts.:-) said:
I know the looks rating can be subjective, but I do think a lot of men are too quick to give women a high number.
So many men don't try or see a significant amount of women and when then they see just one decent girl they give a her 10.
3agle 3yes said:
yeah, i agree with that. although one time i knew this girl who was no more than a 4 on first viewing. real plain jane, shy, girl next door type. absolutely wasnt attracted to her. few months down the line when i got to know her and her personality it was like i'd never met anyone like her. she was like all i could think of and a '10' would not have taken my mind off of her. so yeah, it's subjective.
makes you wonder how many '10's are out there and we don't even realise it cos we're judging them on their looks. dumb.
AttackFormation
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Well damnIn2theGame said:
all I have around here is flat/average girls without any meat on them that speaks to father thick here - where are those chicks hiding?!"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I bet she's as fake as her tits. She's not a 10 overall, let alone physically.
Nah.
http://i.imgur.com/YNVdxH4.jpg
what about the one from the left ?
to me the one on the left (the shorter one) is hotter.cataxdz said:
that's the funny thing about oneitis's. if you could see them from someone else's perspective you'd wonder what all the fuss is about. just goes to how how attraction has more to do with chemistry than looks.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I like that one too. Cuter face, plus all things being equal, I tend to go for the shorter one. I think short girls are kind of a fetish for me.:-) said:
I can see why you'd like the tall one though. I'd give them both 7s, which is very good on my scale.
They both have decent bodies but I'm a face man and I wouldn't be able to stare at her face long term. The chick on the left is light years ahead of her. Fvck the right chick (figuratively) and fvck the left chick (literally).cataxdz said: