"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If strangers make eye contact with you and hold.. then good for approach?

DLxX

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If you're walking down somewhere and a girl makes eye contact with you and doesn't like quickly pull away or anything, then is that a good sign to approach?

Reason I ask is I'm new to this whole DJ thing and still abit afraid of rejection so knowing if this is a good sign or not will sorta let me know whether or not approaching would be a good idea.

Also I read girls who aren't available (have bfs) don't hold eye contact with guys. True?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tazman

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Also I read girls who aren't available (have bfs) don't hold eye contact with guys. True?
Nope, I've had girls make eye contact and even smile while walking next to their bfs. Hell, a girl in my college class who I never talked to before, out of no where playfully kinos me. I try and pursue things further then find out she has a bf. I back off and stop talking to her, and she purposfully makes the desktop backround on her laptop a picture of her bf to try and get me jealous, lol, I thought that was pretty funny.
 

Heyjose25points

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I back off and stop talking to her, and she purposfully makes the desktop backround on her laptop a picture of her bf to try and get me jealous, lol, I thought that was pretty funny.
it's so funny how women love drama.
 

BrotherAP

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Dude, make eye contact and hold, then say hi, then the conversation's rolling. Yes, they're good for approach. No, they're not necessarily single - but you don't need to wait for them to invite you. You put yourself out on a limb a bit. It's a matter of weighing risk verse potential payoff. You have a lot more to gain by talking to them than you have to lose.
 
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