"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If strangers make eye contact with you and hold.. then good for approach?

DLxX

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If you're walking down somewhere and a girl makes eye contact with you and doesn't like quickly pull away or anything, then is that a good sign to approach?

Reason I ask is I'm new to this whole DJ thing and still abit afraid of rejection so knowing if this is a good sign or not will sorta let me know whether or not approaching would be a good idea.

Also I read girls who aren't available (have bfs) don't hold eye contact with guys. True?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tazman

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Also I read girls who aren't available (have bfs) don't hold eye contact with guys. True?
Nope, I've had girls make eye contact and even smile while walking next to their bfs. Hell, a girl in my college class who I never talked to before, out of no where playfully kinos me. I try and pursue things further then find out she has a bf. I back off and stop talking to her, and she purposfully makes the desktop backround on her laptop a picture of her bf to try and get me jealous, lol, I thought that was pretty funny.
 

Heyjose25points

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I back off and stop talking to her, and she purposfully makes the desktop backround on her laptop a picture of her bf to try and get me jealous, lol, I thought that was pretty funny.
it's so funny how women love drama.
 

BrotherAP

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Dude, make eye contact and hold, then say hi, then the conversation's rolling. Yes, they're good for approach. No, they're not necessarily single - but you don't need to wait for them to invite you. You put yourself out on a limb a bit. It's a matter of weighing risk verse potential payoff. You have a lot more to gain by talking to them than you have to lose.
 
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