"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If strangers make eye contact with you and hold.. then good for approach?

DLxX

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If you're walking down somewhere and a girl makes eye contact with you and doesn't like quickly pull away or anything, then is that a good sign to approach?

Reason I ask is I'm new to this whole DJ thing and still abit afraid of rejection so knowing if this is a good sign or not will sorta let me know whether or not approaching would be a good idea.

Also I read girls who aren't available (have bfs) don't hold eye contact with guys. True?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tazman

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Also I read girls who aren't available (have bfs) don't hold eye contact with guys. True?
Nope, I've had girls make eye contact and even smile while walking next to their bfs. Hell, a girl in my college class who I never talked to before, out of no where playfully kinos me. I try and pursue things further then find out she has a bf. I back off and stop talking to her, and she purposfully makes the desktop backround on her laptop a picture of her bf to try and get me jealous, lol, I thought that was pretty funny.
 

Heyjose25points

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I back off and stop talking to her, and she purposfully makes the desktop backround on her laptop a picture of her bf to try and get me jealous, lol, I thought that was pretty funny.
it's so funny how women love drama.
 

BrotherAP

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Dude, make eye contact and hold, then say hi, then the conversation's rolling. Yes, they're good for approach. No, they're not necessarily single - but you don't need to wait for them to invite you. You put yourself out on a limb a bit. It's a matter of weighing risk verse potential payoff. You have a lot more to gain by talking to them than you have to lose.
 
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