Victimothy
Banned
- Joined
- Sep 18, 2017
- Messages
- 27
- Reaction score
- 4
- Age
- 56
What sites would you frequent as a replacement? Would you be satisfied with what you've already learned so far? Would you keep in contact with any members of the forums?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I always thought of it as it promotes not OVER objectifying women to the point where it's creepy. That's how it pertained to me.I only know of this and nofap. But nofap is promotes a lot of beta behaviours such as "having a deeper relationship with women and not sexually objectifying them". Don't agree with this at all
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LOL Exactly.How else would people know how many girls I bang on the daily and how I made 400k last year siting at home while posting 3k messages on an online forum.
Lmfao Same!!!!!Sometimes I wish it would. This place is kind of addictive.
I enjoy reading and posting here more than talking to any of my plates lol.
I want Zach Galifianakis to play big neil.I would make a So Suave movie
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
maybe reddit?
I'm gonna say simple jack from tropic thunderButters more like!
You don't want to know how many synths I have now...it's crazies!!!!![]()
Tbh... I would just spend more time playing my guitars.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'd open a site and invite all ofWhat sites would you frequent as a replacement? Would you be satisfied with what you've already learned so far? Would you keep in contact with any members of the forums?