"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If So Suave were to close up shop

Victimothy

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What sites would you frequent as a replacement? Would you be satisfied with what you've already learned so far? Would you keep in contact with any members of the forums?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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youngprodigy

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I only know of this and nofap. But nofap is promotes a lot of beta behaviours such as "having a deeper relationship with women and not sexually objectifying them". Don't agree with this at all
 

MrJack

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I only know of this and nofap. But nofap is promotes a lot of beta behaviours such as "having a deeper relationship with women and not sexually objectifying them". Don't agree with this at all
I always thought of it as it promotes not OVER objectifying women to the point where it's creepy. That's how it pertained to me.

Sucks to admit but before I learned of nofap years ago I was heavily addicted to porn and just gave off this creepy vibe to women, and would say minorly sexual things to them at the most inappropriate of times lol. Probably because I was super objectifying them and placing them on the highest pedestal possible.

Lots of fapping to porn turns you beta with women.

The "deeper relationship" thing to me is really just getting your normal emotions back. Because when you are heavily addicted to porn your emotions become non existent to an unhealthy point to where you don't give a shyt about anything besides your next 'fix'. Similar to drug addicts.

This is what I've experienced and perceived in the past.

So if you're a true beta anyways then yea you'll probs pour your heart out to women and crave a fantasy unicorn relationship with them when you go nofap for awhile.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How else would people know how many girls I bang on the daily and how I made 400k last year siting at home while posting 3k messages on an online forum.
LOL Exactly.

In the world of feminism and hypergamy, where all men, and even some powerful powerful countries, idolize good looking young women, members of SS can walk to into any social scene, point at the hottest girl and the girl will start ripping off her clothes begging him for sex.

Hollywood can't write this stuff up. o_O
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ubercat

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I've learnt a lot here. Debts must be paid.

That time is nearly up. Probably hang out on more general interest groups. Most cities have discussion groups that have a wide variety of forms. That can build up your local knowledge and contacts.
 

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maybe reddit?
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dustmuffin

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redpill reddit, ask redpill reddit, married redpill reddit, ask married redpill reddit
 

Masculinity

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What sites would you frequent as a replacement? Would you be satisfied with what you've already learned so far? Would you keep in contact with any members of the forums?
I'd open a site and invite all of
you there.
 
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