Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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If she's feeling glum

cNfny

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What's the proper way to be towards a girl who's feeling down about something. I usually just let her talk and say comforting yet short things and never try relating or give opinions. Is this the proper way?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Yep.

If you give her solutions to solve her problems it'll just degenerate into a huge fight and you'll be called out on any problems you may have lol.

Unless the chick is unusually mature and has a history of wanting real advice in her bad times what I said is usually what will happen.

So you are doing things well now!
 

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or just go away and come back when she's in a better mood
 
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cNfny said:
What's the proper way to be towards a girl who's feeling down about something.
In their moment of weakness I just hug them and say that this feeling is only momentary - they usually say, "Thanks for being here." - then I start kissing them on the neck and rub my hands up and down their back and buttocks, simultaneously!! Then they start freaking and scream, "WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING?' I say, "I'm comforting you.". They run away while yelling, "You're a freaking perv!!! I guess I'm not a good comforter. :(
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

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