"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If she says it too soon
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
check_mate_kid_uk
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ps this topic was done last week
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Don Juan
You can't have too many girlfriends.
Close on her now, ask her to be your girl.
If she says no then she was only testing you.
And for that my friend, you next her!
But don't do it rudely.
In fact do it with deception.
Play hurt!
Tell her, "I can't take this, you are only toying with my heart,
I have to go home and cry." [fake a tear if possible]
then wait for her to call you.
She will.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
But beyond this, I need help. How do you "ask her to be your girlfriend." One of my friends got one recently, and others have had them but I don't trust any of them enough to ask. It's not that I'm afraid to ask, I just don't know how.
Mr. Debonaire
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you stole this from me who stole it from Han solo
shame on you
Mr. Debonaire
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oldskewlboyjay
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What do you say when she gets emotional and starts saying **** like.. Real nice... but really dont you love me too??
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Don Juan
Next time you see her go up to her and say:
"Did you really mean it when you said I love you the other day?"
then say
"Do you love me enough to be my B - A - B - Y?"
if she didn't understand that then simply say
"Do you love me enough to be my girl, because roxanne, roxanne.....I wanna be yo man"
Capt.Jack Sparrow
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I dont know how it was back in the old ages with you old farts
Joe The Homophobe
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Band: Extreme, Song: More than words
Your GF: I love you
You the DJ: More than words is all I ever needed you to show, Then you wouldn't have to say that you love me
Cos I'ddd already knowwwwwwww"
You can use several combinations from the lyrics of this song. Lines 1 to 5 are good also
MORE THAN WORDS LYRICS
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